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by Tero » Sun Jun 26, 2011 1:00 pm
MODS: Need new title for this thread, not derail, just make it like Tero's Atheist Ramblings.
Here is a lighthearted look at atheism. I think we all have to explain this to people at times that we are not cold hearted gloomy people after we lose god. I wrote this in 2008 in a blog. Feel free to cut and paste it anywhere you go. Tell them you found it on Rationalia, no need to mention me.
So you decided to become an atheist, what now?
First, if you got here through a traumatic experience, you need a fresh start. Move houses, change jobs, move to Alaska, whatever it takes to break off.
I am not here to tell you how to become an atheist. I also have to explain that I am a Unitarian (or was, my daughter still is one). I do not deny the feelings people have about spiritual things. You have to deal with those on an individual basis. But try to pick friends who can be a bit rational as well, even if they need these spiritual things.
OK, so, now we are atheists, you and me. You still go to work, you eat and sleep. You get sick, go to the doctor. Life is pain and pleasure and sometimes boredom. You have a nice meal and it still tastes as good as before. You enjoy your friends, relatives, the sun shines and you can be happy. You are free! The philosophical concept of free will is unprovable. But you are unique, you are the product of your genes and your personal history. It is nature and nurture. You may be gifted. Be thankful, be happy, you can do more stuff in your life than someone else. Who do we thank? Our genetic heritage and out parents for their love. If you did it all on your own and did not become a selfish person in your struggle, pat yourself on the back. Buy yourself an ice cream cone, I give you permission.
Sin is still a concept, but we atheists need another person, or the vague “world” to sin against. If you sin against a person, you need to apologize. If you have “sinful thoughts”, forget them and forgive yourself. If you have guilt, talk it out with a friend. Donate to a charity if that helps you.
Your religious friends will come around and pity you, because “your life has no meaning”. You just smile back and tell them they are silly. Buy them and ice-cream cone. If they persist in this line of thinking, tell them you love them, and that you will never again discuss religion with them. If they are close to you, give them a little hug.
Some things never change. Love is real, life is real, flowers still come up in the spring. Find someone you can love and not end up with ideological conflicts with. If you need some sort of spiritual interaction, if you need help with life issues, and still need to seek for some sort of meaning, study nature for example. The creatures in nature are perfectly happy in the present, they live fully every minute. They can’t all be wrong.
There may be someone out there who claims I am not atheistic enough (merely an agnostic), I give too much credit to emotion as a valid thing. You have problems, you will spend time reading a lot of books looking for meaning. There is not going to be any solution in books. Philosophy is a bunch of crap. If you need to read something, read Atheism, a short introduction, by Julian Baggini.
Don’t collect money and stuff, money does not bring much happiness. Have a good life!
International disaster, gonna be a blaster
Gonna rearrange our lives
International disaster, send for the master
Don't wait to see the white of his eyes
International disaster, international disaster
Price of silver droppin' so do yer Christmas shopping
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