Why Penis Size Doesn't Matter
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Why Penis Size Doesn't Matter
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Why Penis Size Doesn't Matter One Bit in Getting Most Women Off
ave you ever wondered whether your female partner is faking it? Have you ever wondered if you’re really satisfying her? If so, you’re not alone. Men routinely write me for advice about their penis size because they assume it’s the key to female satisfaction.
The scientifically proven truth? If you think penis size is the end-all-be-all, you’re working from a flawed premise. The clitoris is the thing that you need to focus on if you want your partner to come rather than merely say she did. And even if you know that, do you know the science behind why? Let's take a look.
How She Gets Herself Off
In interviews and lab-based observations dating back from Alfred Kinsey's research in the 1950s to Masters & Johnson's research during the '60s continuing through today's scientific studies, only one in five women ever uses vaginal penetration to give themselves an orgasm. Most women quit using penetration after sating their curiosity about it. Yet, all women stimulate the clitoris every time.
If the clit could be safely ignored or stimulated as a mere afterthought or during foreplay, or left there on its own to catch whatever attention it can during thrusting, don’t you think more women would ignore their clits when they’re all alone and able to do whatever pleases them best?
Nope. When it comes to the female orgasm, the clit is the main event. Great lovers acknowledge that fact through their behavior and through their beliefs.
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Why Penis Size Doesn't Matter One Bit in Getting Most Women Off
ave you ever wondered whether your female partner is faking it? Have you ever wondered if you’re really satisfying her? If so, you’re not alone. Men routinely write me for advice about their penis size because they assume it’s the key to female satisfaction.
The scientifically proven truth? If you think penis size is the end-all-be-all, you’re working from a flawed premise. The clitoris is the thing that you need to focus on if you want your partner to come rather than merely say she did. And even if you know that, do you know the science behind why? Let's take a look.
How She Gets Herself Off
In interviews and lab-based observations dating back from Alfred Kinsey's research in the 1950s to Masters & Johnson's research during the '60s continuing through today's scientific studies, only one in five women ever uses vaginal penetration to give themselves an orgasm. Most women quit using penetration after sating their curiosity about it. Yet, all women stimulate the clitoris every time.
If the clit could be safely ignored or stimulated as a mere afterthought or during foreplay, or left there on its own to catch whatever attention it can during thrusting, don’t you think more women would ignore their clits when they’re all alone and able to do whatever pleases them best?
Nope. When it comes to the female orgasm, the clit is the main event. Great lovers acknowledge that fact through their behavior and through their beliefs.
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Re: Why Penis Size Doesn't Matter
It ain't how much you say, it's exactly how much you mean and the ability to deliver...
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A woman once asked me, who are you going to satisfy with that little thing? I said, "me".
Yeah well that's just, like, your opinion, man.
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When I was much younger and had my first, steady girlfriend, I asked a mate of mine how to satisfy her. He told me in two little words.
But he was a lying bastit! I asked at the sex shop and there is no such thing as a rubber clit!
But he was a lying bastit! I asked at the sex shop and there is no such thing as a rubber clit!
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As far as I'm concerned, the point is moot.
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I once decided I was going to be a male prostitute.
I went up to an older woman in a bar, and whispered in her ear, ''I'll do anything you want, for fifty quid''.
She looked me up and down, smiled, and got fifty quid out of her purse, and pressed it into my hand, and whispered in my ear. '' decorate my house '' !!
I went up to an older woman in a bar, and whispered in her ear, ''I'll do anything you want, for fifty quid''.
She looked me up and down, smiled, and got fifty quid out of her purse, and pressed it into my hand, and whispered in my ear. '' decorate my house '' !!
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Well of course that doesn't mean it "doesn't matter", just that it's not the only thing that matters. Someone with a big cock and no idea how to please a woman is worse than a guy who is normal size, because if he's not doing it right he might be hurting you. An average, or even smaller-than-average guy who knows his way around is still going to make a woman happy. But, while clitoral orgasms are by far the most common kind, they aren't the only kind, and a well endowed guy who knows what he's doing...is gonna go to the top of the list
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I'm neither well endowed nor know what I'm doing
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Neither am I, but I have hands and a tongue to compensate
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All the stuff with genitalia and other body parts seems rather weird to me. All that matters is to love.
[Disclaimer - if this is comes across like I think I know what I'm talking about, I want to make it clear that I don't. I'm just trying to get my thoughts down]
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You keep a LIST ?rachelbean wrote: a well endowed guy who knows what he's doing...is gonna go to the top of the list
It's all right for some.
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Women have orgasms??
Well, I never...
Well, I never...
Yeah well that's just, like, your opinion, man.
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A wise man once said: Love is all very well, but it won't let you come on its tits.PsychoSerenity wrote:All the stuff with genitalia and other body parts seems rather weird to me. All that matters is to love.
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I wonder what gays think of penis size?
As a complete ignoramus to the gay scene, I can only think of one thing worse than having a cock up my arse, and that's having a BIG cock up my arse.
Do gays with small dicks go straight to the top of the list?
As a complete ignoramus to the gay scene, I can only think of one thing worse than having a cock up my arse, and that's having a BIG cock up my arse.
Do gays with small dicks go straight to the top of the list?
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Depends on whether you are the fucker or the fuckee, I suppose...mistermack wrote:I wonder what gays think of penis size?
As a complete ignoramus to the gay scene, I can only think of one thing worse than having a cock up my arse, and that's having a BIG cock up my arse.
Do gays with small dicks go straight to the top of the list?
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