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Re: Gay marriage, what do you think?

Post by Xamonas Chegwé » Sun Mar 31, 2013 1:41 am

Tyrannical wrote:Homosexual men and lesbians are free to marry each other, and always have been. Why effeminate men and masculine women don't take more advantage of it, I don't know.
Because they have nothing to gain through it, perhaps? Why marry simply for the sake of being married, rather than to show a commitment to someone you love? :dunno:
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Post by Blind groper » Sun Mar 31, 2013 6:52 pm

There is, of course, gay marriage already. Marriage is basically two people making a commitment to each other, and gays have been doing that for decades.

The distinction is legal, in that there are legal penalties to not being 'legally' married. The law, as I always say, is an ass. It is way behind the times, and it is time to catch up to the reality that gay people are choosing to live as married couples, and they need the legal protections.
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Post by Evabot » Sun Mar 31, 2013 7:09 pm

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Greater than....All the above...gay,straight,bisexual,transsexual, and queen identified. A cause I would give my life for. Considering I have loved people in all these genre's, I can't imagine not having the ability to build a life through marriage with them.


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Post by DaveDodo007 » Sun Mar 31, 2013 8:48 pm

All the men in the world can shag each other senseless but the lesbians have to include me in a threesome, just sayin' like. As I'm a social justice warriour and i won't be robbed of my reward. Grrrr.
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Re: Gay marriage, what do you think?

Post by Xamonas Chegwé » Mon Apr 01, 2013 1:18 am

If you love someone enough to give them the power to take you to court over who gets which CDs when you realise that perhaps they don't love you as much as you might love them, then why should that have ANYTHING to do with gender definition?

The real question is why the fuck we still have alimony and "fault" divorce in a society where either partner could be earning pretty much any amount in relation to the other! Why (apart from the principle of equality) any gay person would want to subject themselves to that bollocks unnecessarily is beyond me! :hehe:


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Post by MiM » Mon Apr 01, 2013 8:20 am

We don't have "fault" divorces in Finland. There is not even a place to write the "reason" on the form you use to file for a divorce. Alimony is paid to cover the expenses of children, and only in special cases to spouses, and then only for a limited time. :dunno:
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Post by cronus » Mon Apr 01, 2013 8:34 am

I would agree with gay marriage except my wife would complain. She is a very jealous woman. :coffee:
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Post by Hermit » Mon Apr 01, 2013 9:01 am

Coito ergo sum wrote:
JimC wrote:What I find very irritating is churches campaigning against it. Naturally, they have a right not to conduct marriage ceremonies for gays within their churches, but they want to extend that to an area that's none of their business, civil marriage services, which is what most gay couples would want, I'd imagine...

PS - If gay marriage was legal, but a pair of gays was moaning because they couldn't get married in church like their parents, I'd tell 'em tough shit...
In all fairness, they're not wanting to extend. They're wanting to preserve the status quo. Gay marriage is new, and the civil law never permitted it in the western world until, like 10 years ago, and most places on the globe still don't permit it.
The Australian Commonwealth Marriage Act (1961) contradicts this. In 2004 it was amended to specifically define marriage as the union between a man and a woman. The amendment reads thus:
  • Marriage means the union of a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.

    Certain unions are not marriages. A union solemnised in a foreign country between: (a) a man and another man; or (b) a woman and another woman; must not be recognised as a marriage in Australia
Previous to 1961 there was no Commonwealth law regarding marriage. The matter was left in the hands of the state governments. The amendment is the only change made to the act since its inception and the present.

Having said all that, let me register my opinion that I do not care about the institutions of marriage one jot. Prime Minister Gough Whitlam began legislating rights for partners who are in a de facto relationship in the early 70s. Since Kevin Rudd cleaned up the remaining legislative inequities before he was turfed out by the right wing of the party he lead, that institution has become redundant from a legislative point of view. Except, of course, for those who see it as a backstop for their antiquated moral tenets.
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Post by JimC » Mon Apr 01, 2013 9:05 am

Hermit wrote:
Coito ergo sum wrote:
JimC wrote:What I find very irritating is churches campaigning against it. Naturally, they have a right not to conduct marriage ceremonies for gays within their churches, but they want to extend that to an area that's none of their business, civil marriage services, which is what most gay couples would want, I'd imagine...

PS - If gay marriage was legal, but a pair of gays was moaning because they couldn't get married in church like their parents, I'd tell 'em tough shit...
In all fairness, they're not wanting to extend. They're wanting to preserve the status quo. Gay marriage is new, and the civil law never permitted it in the western world until, like 10 years ago, and most places on the globe still don't permit it.
The Australian Commonwealth Marriage Act (1961) contradicts this. In 2004 it was amended to specifically define marriage as the union between a man and a woman. The amendment reads thus:
  • Marriage means the union of a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.

    Certain unions are not marriages. A union solemnised in a foreign country between: (a) a man and another man; or (b) a woman and another woman; must not be recognised as a marriage in Australia
Previous to 1961 there was no Commonwealth law regarding marriage. The matter was left in the hands of the state governments. The amendment is the only change made to the act since its inception and the present.

Having said all that, let me register my opinion that I do not care about the institutions of marriage one jot. Prime Minister Gough Whitlam began legislating rights for partners who are in a de facto relationship in the early 70s. Since Kevin Rudd cleaned up the remaining legislative inequities before he was turfed out by the right wing of the party he lead, that institution has become redundant from a legislative point of view. Except, of course, for those who see it as a backstop for their antiquated moral tenets.
Are you certain that there are absolutely no legal inequalities between married couples, and couples (of whatever gender) in a de facto relationship?

Without being certain, I gather that you have to be living together for at least a year before certain legal protections kick in, whereas they would apply immediately a marriage certificate is signed...
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Post by Hermit » Mon Apr 01, 2013 9:28 am

JimC wrote:
Hermit wrote:
Coito ergo sum wrote:
JimC wrote:What I find very irritating is churches campaigning against it. Naturally, they have a right not to conduct marriage ceremonies for gays within their churches, but they want to extend that to an area that's none of their business, civil marriage services, which is what most gay couples would want, I'd imagine...

PS - If gay marriage was legal, but a pair of gays was moaning because they couldn't get married in church like their parents, I'd tell 'em tough shit...
In all fairness, they're not wanting to extend. They're wanting to preserve the status quo. Gay marriage is new, and the civil law never permitted it in the western world until, like 10 years ago, and most places on the globe still don't permit it.
The Australian Commonwealth Marriage Act (1961) contradicts this. In 2004 it was amended to specifically define marriage as the union between a man and a woman. The amendment reads thus:
  • Marriage means the union of a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life.

    Certain unions are not marriages. A union solemnised in a foreign country between: (a) a man and another man; or (b) a woman and another woman; must not be recognised as a marriage in Australia
Previous to 1961 there was no Commonwealth law regarding marriage. The matter was left in the hands of the state governments. The amendment is the only change made to the act since its inception and the present.

Having said all that, let me register my opinion that I do not care about the institutions of marriage one jot. Prime Minister Gough Whitlam began legislating rights for partners who are in a de facto relationship in the early 70s. Since Kevin Rudd cleaned up the remaining legislative inequities before he was turfed out by the right wing of the party he lead, that institution has become redundant from a legislative point of view. Except, of course, for those who see it as a backstop for their antiquated moral tenets.
Are you certain that there are absolutely no legal inequalities between married couples, and couples (of whatever gender) in a de facto relationship?

Without being certain, I gather that you have to be living together for at least a year before certain legal protections kick in, whereas they would apply immediately a marriage certificate is signed...
Two years, actually, unless there is a child of the de facto relationship, or that the party to the de facto relationship who applies for the order or declaration made substantial contributions of a kind mentioned in paragraph 90SM(4)(a), (b) or (c) of the Family Law Act 1975 or that failure to make the order or declaration would result in serious injustice to the applicant, or that the relationship is or was registered under a prescribed law of a State or Territory. I think that has pretty much all bases covered that apply to the legislated institution of marriage.
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Post by DaveDodo007 » Mon Apr 01, 2013 10:21 am

MiM wrote:We don't have "fault" divorces in Finland. There is not even a place to write the "reason" on the form you use to file for a divorce. Alimony is paid to cover the expenses of children, and only in special cases to spouses, and then only for a limited time. :dunno:
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Post by Gawdzilla Sama » Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:32 am

Gays want to get married? Fuck 'em.


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