Bella Fortuna wrote:Pappa wrote:Coito ergo sum wrote:I don't see what is so bad about flying a flag anyhow. Seems to some of you as if someone who puts a flag outside their house is deserving of some scorn.
Because it implies blind patriotism and usually an unpleasant sort of insular nationalism.
My travels in the US have been confined to LA and SF, but even there flag flying was blatant enough to be immediately notable to me. Flag flying here is a rarity.
Actually I agree with this (as well as the image it projects). You very seldom see them in the UK - I don't know that I ever have.
Come to think of it, about a week ago as I was driving in my neighbourhood I counted at least half a dozen houses with flags flying (that don't normally) but had no idea why...

It seemed weird.
I think that we forget that while some people may be blindly patriotic, patriotism is not by definition blind. I see no virtue in blind scorn or indifference toward one's country, either. A flag, in my experience, means more about a connection to a larger group. A family. I was born in the US, but my parents are immigrants. I often flew the flag of my forefathers too - I'd put stickers of the Norwegian flag on things. I'd wave a Norwegian flag at the Norwegian independence day parade, when we'd go. Sometimes we'd fly the Norwegian flag outside the house now and again. It wasn't out of "blind patriotism" and during Fourth of July celebrations in the US, the red white and blue of the flag was and is everywhere - but, it's not blind patriotism, radical nationalism and jingoism that has people celebrating -- it's love of country. Americans tend to like it here, and we're grateful.
It doesn't have to imply patriotism at all, let alone blind. And patriotism with sight is not a bad thing, and being patriotic may well mean opposing things one's country is doing.
Moreover, it doesn't have to mean - and in my experience more often than not doesn't mean an "insular nationalism" with distasteful ideas. She Who Must Be Obeyed keeps her home country's flag around. She has good feelings for her home country - her people - her family - all that.
Incidentaily, it may be the far more immigrant friendly nature of the US that causes such a high degree of flag waving. You'll find that long time immigrants to the US develop an even greater sense of patriotism than born-and-bred Americans (who tend not to have the same sense of value in what they have, as compared to immigrants who more often than not burst with affection for the US). Far more Americans are immigrants, and recent descendents of immigrants than you find in the more insular countries elsewhere. They tend to retain an affection for the "home country," and at the same time develop an affection for their new country. Most Americans can trace their ancestry overseas within a couple-three generations.