lordpasternack wrote: I also admire Jan for her good humour since she was one of the moderators who worked for free on your forum for several months before being jackbooted out, and who remains more competent than your current moderators.
Thank you for the compliment Heather, it's most appreciated. I was a moderator then admin on the forum for about 3 years and I don't regret any of it (despite being very upset at the way the forum was closed). I feel privileged to have been part of something that enabled all sorts of people from around the world to post their thoughts and articles on reason & science, ask for/give advice, make links with others etc.
I don't think the mods on RDnet now are incompetent - I suspect they are just trying to "the right thing" and don't have any malicious intent. Is it fair to describe them as not competent? I know one of them and he's a lovely guy who has RDFRS best interests at heart. I don't know what you've posted that was deleted but perhaps they thought you were just intent on trolling/insulting RD rather than making a contribution.
In some respects, every organisation needs someone as feisty and clever as you are to challenge what they are doing but perhaps your frank manner and occasional 'stalking' behaviour undermines what you are actually saying, which results in you not being listened to as much as you might be. I can't remember where I read/heard it but there's a quote somewhere about the importance of listening to those who disagree with you as much as those who agree. This is easier if those who disagree aren't personally insulting or threatening, which you sometimes are despite your other attributes of compassion, wit and generosity, which many of us know about.
I've just read what I've written and I sound hugely patronising but I don't mean to be - just trying to express myself while juggling family/work/pets. I hope you'll get the gist of what I'm attempting to convey even if it's not well written.