maiforpeace wrote:Seth, did I read somewhere that you are an uncle helping to raise six nephews? Hopefully they are all religious and take the purity/chastity pledge. God help them if uncle ever found out they were fooling around and were party to an accidental pregnancy.
Their parents have done everything they can to teach their children to respect their bodies, and the bodies of the girls they associate with, and to teach them that they bear all the responsibility for their own actions, and that succumbing to sexual urges at a young age can turn their lives upside down in many ways, including a burden of guilt for the death of their child if the girl decides, in her sovereign capacity, to abort the child. I support the parent's teachings in that regard, even if I don't agree with the religious components, because it's not my place to interfere with their parental prerogatives.
Beyond education and moral instruction, one can only place trust in a young person to make good judgments and then hold them accountable for their actions. They are made aware of this as they mature, and they begin suffering the consequences of their actions quite early in life, so generally they understand, by the time they are teenagers and may become sexually active, that their parents will NOT relieve them of liability or responsibility for sexual promiscuity. They will be expected to stand to and bear the burden on their own, and their lives will be substantially different from what they would have been if they had chosen chastity, abstinence and monogamy.
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