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by floppit » Tue Aug 30, 2011 8:03 am
I haven't said anything yet because, reading through, I feel like my take on it is almost off topic.
Maybe this is just me whining a little but as a woman I seem to have spent a lifetime up against stereotypes of female emptiness, like cardboard cut outs or caring machines, or in dissent 'hard nosed', aggressive, unattractive, cold...
At 16 my boss said he'd never teach a 'girl' to break horses, but he was the best so I stuck to it until tenacity changed his mind, together with the frustrations of attempting to teach lads who had half the desire to shut the fuck up and listen. At uni, the next life, tenacity and strength saw me seen as 'frightening' - go figure, I never hurt a soul, didn't even argue dammit! And so it roles on, till as a newly split woman it felt like my head had been shaved, the epitome of what is not the female's place, to split from a critically ill husband.
See, that's what bothers me about the pictures, not temptations to paedophiles. The kids on this earth are all our human kids, every damn last one of them and while there's a shit ton of weight to mould and form the girls into empty spaces, mindless dolls - it makes me cringe, for them. Those pics are no more or less haunting than the beauty pageants, or the array of countless cinderella dresses, Disney princess importing strength from male alliance, and those less attractive, less weak females - the villains, evil.
I want us to stay shocked because behind each child face with false eyelashes plonked on is a little human being who I think is being squashed into a role by adults. It is a mile away from the dress up games, lets face it, as much as little girls (including mine) will play princess, dress up is also for dragon slaying and super heroes (including mine), dress up is to try on 100 roles, not one, and when it is ONLY one it starts to matter what that role is.
"Whatever it is, it spits and it goes 'WAAARGHHHHHHHH' - that's probably enough to suggest you shouldn't argue with it." Mousy.