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I Quit: The Lessons of History

Post by Jerome23 » Wed Feb 24, 2010 10:46 am

OK, I think I'm giving up on the whole forum thing. I'll tell you why...

Firstly, I am still shocked, saddened and miserable about the demise of the wonderful RD.net. The problem is I have seen it ALL before, and not so long ago. If I thought this was Josh Timonen's fault, or Dawkins, I could just laugh and move on, and help fight. The thing is I can't any more. It's something fundamental and deeper.

Years ago I knew a wonderful cryptographer, medium and cynic who I will call James. James joined a psychic research group I belonged to, and noted that every group tends to do the same thing: the leadership cock it up, it fragments, and two new groups appear. A few years later the pattern occurs again. James was an atheist spiritualist (there are a LOT of them, and one often sees their stuff cited by other atheist who are unaware of their rather strange ideas to modern atheists minds) and in a thoughtful moment he confided in me that exactly the same was true of every atheist group he had belonged to. I guess it's true of gardening clubs, poetry societies, fan clubs and stamp collectors as well. As he noted, there must be something wrong with human nature. (In fact one sees it less in religious groups - because they can appeal to external authorities and impose their will by divine mandate, which makes them even nastier when it all goes tits up).

Now in fact Old Soul posted on my blog, and reminded me of something.. We have seen this all before, just two years ago. Here is the Encylopedia Dramatica version of events back then on IIDB - http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Iidb Many of the IIDB exiles fled to RD.net, and discussed what was happening there: and in fact the response was largely one of disinterest, mild sadness, and modding to stop the fight spilling over on to our forum. In fact it is much like the very ambivalent if not positively unsympathetic responses one sees from the JREF today - http://forums.randi.org/showthread.php?t=168039

Now Internet Infidels and Secular Web had a history going back to 1995, and were absolutely huge. I think it is fair to say that IIDB was in it's day the largest Atheist site on the web - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_Infidels- and it's collapse left a vacuum that RD.net quickly filled, along with the Rational Response Squad. The RRS had its own problems in 2008/2009 including a hugely publicised punch up and a falling out with RD over allegations of his having an affair (even if true, who gives a f*ck, and it wasn't anyway...) However the IIDB melt down,mass deletions, sacking of mods and general shittiness gave birth ot a number of forums, including Rants n Raves, a splendidly irreverent place which is sort of 4chan meets Atheism -- http://www.rantsnraves.org/

All of this may seem by the by, but in fact you probably really need to look at this whole mess on IIDB, that we all chose to ignore.There are threads on RD.net - maybe someone with access to the database can find them? However the same things happened - admins sackied, mods dimsissed, members expelled, complete meltdown.
http://spaninquis.wordpress.com/2007/10 ... e-melting/
http://www.daylightatheism.org/2007/11/ ... ation.html
http://rantsnraves.org/wiki/index.php/C ... :IIDebacle

Hey there must be people here who lived through all this, and know first hand what happened? Old Soul wrote on my blog --
In 2007, the Internet Infidels Inc, a nonprofit educational group, shut down their extremely popular “IIDB” Internet Infidels Discussion Board, driving away thousands of people, many of whom had donated money to the group for both its regular operations and the upkeep of the forums. When the II, Inc. began banning and silencing its forum users, it lost very little real revenue, as the major donors who supported the organization did not care one bit about the teeming masses on the message board. The II, Inc. did not lose any real income or its reputation amongst the atheist elite. It sold the IIDB to a woman from New Zealand, who changed the forum name and continued to silence all dissidents. The II, Inc. did not suffer any loss or long-term damage after divesting itself of its forum. No problem there, either.
Yep, that was my understanding.He also has a very long term perspective --
Decades ago, Madalyn Murray O’Hair shut down every chapter of American Atheists, alienating thousands of people, but doing no long-term harm to herself or the group. No problem there.


I suspect the young and British influenced RD'ers may not all know about the tragic and bizarre story of Madalyn Murray O’Hair -- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madalyn_Murray_O%27Hair Some of the links like the Time article are REALLY good: and yep, no one deserves to be killed like that. But anyone spot similarities with how AA was run and the current situation? OK, we don';t have claims of fraud and dodgy accounting, or blatant theft (a majort factor in the iIDB was failure to disclose accounts, but no fruad occurred there as far as I know: I Think it unlikely.) Yet we have exactly the same p[attern of self-proclaimed leaders fleecing members, f*cking over the organisation and so called rationalist acting like compete arseholes.

Even after the great October Purge, when many of us left, I eventually drifted back to RD.net. TAF and Rationalia split: I can't help but being reminded of the South Park episode Go God, Go! where the United Atheist Alliance (UAA)fight the United Atheist League (UAL) and the Allied Atheist Allegiance (AAA) --sure it was a shit episode by South Park standards, but there was more than a grain of truth in it.

Old Soul really hit the nail on the head though when he wrote
This is just business as usual for atheist organizations, why are you all so surprised? This is how it is done. Richard Dawkins will not lose any face. He will not suffer a publicity backlash. As far as his staff is concerned, you are all ungrateful for complaining about not being able to use the forums any more. Guess what? They do not care. They will make new websites, write new books, and speak at new conventions. Where thousands of you dare not tread, thousands more unsuspecting atheists will fill the seats you won’t occupy, and buy the books you won’t read, and visit the websites you won’t support. No problems.

There are millions and millions of atheists worldwide and no major atheist group has ever lost any money by not accommodating all of them. For every hundred of you who leave in disgust, two hundred more will take your place. For every post that is deleted… the same. The outcry of atheists who are offended by being silenced is not a problem in the grand scheme of organized atheist groups.

These groups operate in a realm that none of you occupy. It is a world in which *you* do not exist, and none of them (on the national or international level) are focused on “atheist community” or “the needs of nonbelievers.” They are money-making operations supporting authors, lecturers, philosophers, and publicity hounds, all in the name of atheism, and all for naught.

If you are operating a large atheist organization, shutting the internet out of your atheist group will not hurt you in the long run. This is demonstrably true, and the RDF staff certainly knows it. Now you all know it too. Visit this page again in 2 years, when Dawkins’ books are selling like hotcakes, his lectures are standing-room-only, and his new website discussion area is busy and bustling with passionate atheist activity. All of this complaining is not going to change anything.

There will be no problem for the RDF. Atheist herd migration will not disrupt the activities of any major atheist group, certainly not the biggest moneymaker of them all.


He is indeed a wise old soul. :( You can see his full comment on my blog.

This has seemed I am sure to many of you yet another betrayal, but really, I am deadly serious. If we can't get it together, are we (and I guess it's not really we is it, but I count myself as one of you lot) any better than the Christians, the Muslims and the Buddhists etc, etc? Sorry, it seems that the loss of the forum is irrlevant to most atheist, and will remain so, based on the examples of history. We will be a footnote ina wiki article, and spawn threads on a few secular websites, but no one is listening, and the RDF will laugh all the way to the bank. If you think people really care,look again at the JREF thread, or look at the Skeptics Guide to the Universe one - http://sguforums.com/index.php?topic=26298.0

They don't just not care, THEY DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT. Its just like us at RD.net when IIDB went down - some one lese politics, proof the rationalist dream crashed when it meets the reality of f****d up humans. Good people will carry on and have a laugh, but the majority of the atheist population will just say "shut up and stop whining". Bleak I know, but do a Google search and you will find its true... http://www.sciforums.com/showthread.php?t=99807

In fact even the blogosphere only returns Darkchilde, myself and Peter Harrison's blogs. This is not going to hurt the RDF, or makke any difference; We lost, people got treated like shit, and no one will care outside of TAF and Rationalia

I think I'm out of here.

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Re: I Quit: The Lessons of History

Post by Valden » Wed Feb 24, 2010 11:04 am

But Jerome! You're my favorite theist! Who will fill your empty spot in my heart? :cry:

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Re: I Quit: The Lessons of History

Post by Sisifo » Wed Feb 24, 2010 11:23 am

Quitter.

Seriously.

You leave, and say your farewells to friends and colleagues when the storm is over; not now. Leaving the trenches when the battle has just begun and people is in shock and trying to find a way to retaliate, and to figure out "what now", is simply out of the question.
Help to give publicity to the purge. Help to redesign a new concept. Assist those who need some friendly faces now. Start a complain campaig. Open an "erasedatheist.org" or give flyers at Dawkins conventions. Fight!

When the battle is over, do whatever you like.

Fight or die, but never whine.

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Re: I Quit: The Lessons of History

Post by Jerome23 » Wed Feb 24, 2010 11:33 am

Sisifo wrote:Quitter.

Seriously.

You leave, and say your farewells to friends and colleagues when the storm is over; not now. Leaving the trenches when the battle has just begun and people is in shock and trying to find a way to retaliate, and to figure out "what now", is simply out of the question.
Help to give publicity to the purge. Help to redesign a new concept. Assist those who need some friendly faces now. Start a complain campaig. Open an "erasedatheist.org" or give flyers at Dawkins conventions. Fight!

When the battle is over, do whatever you like.

Fight or die, but never whine.

Well it's not rally my fight (i'm a Christian after all, I guess I should be dancing around laughing not bloody miserable about the whole thing), but if anyone can come up with a plan of action I'm in. And I will publicise it, as i have from minutes after the first announcement, of that you can be sure... Forgiveness is hard sometimes...

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Re: I Quit: The Lessons of History

Post by FBM » Wed Feb 24, 2010 11:38 am

I don't have a plan of action, nor do I plan to make one, but might I suggest that, instead of throwing the baby out with the bathwater, you just take a break for a while? Re-evaluate the situation after you've recovered from the shock a bit? There are lots of people here who really value your insight and character, and one thing is guaranteed: emotions do change.
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Re: I Quit: The Lessons of History

Post by SnowLeopard » Wed Feb 24, 2010 11:47 am

I have been thinking of doing the same thing, not in quite so much detail as you though lol.

But yea.
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Post by J.A.Poisson » Wed Feb 24, 2010 11:50 am

Jerome23 wrote: Firstly, I am still shocked, saddened and miserable about the demise of the wonderful RD.net. The problem is I have seen it ALL before, and not so long ago. If I thought this was Josh Timonen's fault, or Dawkins, I could just laugh and move on, and help fight. The thing is I can't any more. It's something fundamental and deeper.
Years ago, hosting a discussion board was costly, and needed expertise. So people gathered at large places run under some banner or name or cause. The board was more important than the community, as they were in shorter supply. Now a monkey with a laptop could run a board. The community has become the scarce resource, and a pissed off community is very likely to move. Social skills have replaced computer skills as the biggest asset for someone running a board and it's rare for someone to have both. Big, old discussion boards tend to be run by people with computer skills. I don't think it's a fundamental and deep flaw in human nature, I think it's the evolution of internet fora.

Hey there must be people here who lived through all this, and know first hand what happened?

:biggrin: what would you like to know?
The outcry of atheists who are offended by being silenced is not a problem in the grand scheme of organized atheist groups.
I agree. The problem is the whole idea of organised atheist groups. The Church of Nogod is a ridiculous idea.

This has seemed I am sure to many of you yet another betrayal, but really, I am deadly serious. If we can't get it together, are we (and I guess it's not really we is it, but I count myself as one of you lot) any better than the Christians, the Muslims and the Buddhists etc, etc?
No, we aren't. And anyone who seriously thinks we are for whatever reason needs a good shoeing.

Sorry, it seems that the loss of the forum is irrlevant to most atheist, and will remain so, based on the examples of history. We will be a footnote ina wiki article, and spawn threads on a few secular websites, but no one is listening, and the RDF will laugh all the way to the bank.
It's relevant to people who were there, and who had invested time and money in the place. Isn't that enough?


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Re: I Quit: The Lessons of History

Post by Jerome23 » Wed Feb 24, 2010 11:59 am

J.A.Poisson wrote:
Years ago, hosting a discussion board was costly, and needed expertise. So people gathered at large places run under some banner or name or cause. The board was more important than the community, as they were in shorter supply. Now a monkey with a laptop could run a board. The community has become the scarce resource, and a pissed off community is very likely to move. Social skills have replaced computer skills as the biggest asset for someone running a board and it's rare for someone to have both. Big, old discussion boards tend to be run by people with computer skills. I don't think it's a fundamental and deep flaw in human nature, I think it's the evolution of internet fora.
I think that is so bloody true it's painful. Extremely well said. I posted this article on my blog at http://jerome23.wordpress.com/2010/02/2 ... f-history/ and if oyu could make that comment there it would be wonderful.

And I agree about the Church fo NoGod being observed; atheists are defined by a single negative, but as a group they do possess prevalent personality values - intelligence, compassion (many), critical thinking, wry humour. Yet ultimately you get wankers in any group, and organised atheism really is a bizarre concept, as my self professed militant-atheist wife (and my equally atheistic girlfriend; no one said i was a good Christian) keep reminding me. I'm just so disillusioned ta the moment :(

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Re: I Quit: The Lessons of History

Post by FBM » Wed Feb 24, 2010 12:03 pm

Jerome23 wrote:...as my self professed militant-atheist wife (and my equally atheistic girlfriend; no one said i was a good Christian) keep reminding me...j x
Holy shit. You are to Christianity what I am to Buddhism. :?

Sorry. No derail. And this is a serious thread. Please consider at least delaying your decision until the impact has worn off a tad. You and I don't know each other, but there do seem to be a lot of people around here who speak very highly of you.
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Post by Feck » Wed Feb 24, 2010 12:03 pm

Not being on a forum because at some point in the future there will be troubles and It might collapse is like never being in a relationship because it will "always end in tears ".

I have met so many great people on TAF and then Rationalia (don't whine about other forums not suporting the RDF'rs on This forum) Atheist forums have made a Big change to my life and you just have to take the rough with the smooth . Sometimes you get your heart broken .


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Post by Spearthrower » Wed Feb 24, 2010 12:04 pm

Jerome, if you quit, it proves that there is no such thing as God or gods, and within a week of you leaving we'll be claiming you ran away because you couldn't face this harsh truth! :biggrin:

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Post by Thinking Aloud » Wed Feb 24, 2010 12:06 pm

If it's any consolation, Ratz isn't owned or run by any one individual - it was created by one, yes, but the site is owned by an Association set up for the purpose. Ultimately one-person-control is what has caused the problems at RDF, and was the cause of the ruction that saw Ratz split from TAF. Yes, it's politics at the end of the day, but this place has been remarkably stable since its inception just over a year ago.

One hell of a birthday party going on just now though! :lol:

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Post by J.A.Poisson » Wed Feb 24, 2010 12:06 pm

Jerome23 wrote: I think that is so bloody true it's painful. Extremely well said. I posted this article on my blog at http://jerome23.wordpress.com/2010/02/2 ... f-history/ and if oyu could make that comment there it would be wonderful.
Done, and cool, a new blog for me to read!

And I agree about the Church fo NoGod being observed; atheists are defined by a single negative, but as a group they do possess prevalent personality values - intelligence, compassion (many), critical thinking, wry humour. Yet ultimately you get wankers in any group, and organised atheism really is a bizarre concept, as my self professed militant-atheist wife (and my equally atheistic girlfriend; no one said i was a good Christian) keep reminding me.
It's a bizarre idea, and yet so many seem to accept it as being normal.
I'm just so disillusioned ta the moment :(

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Re: I Quit: The Lessons of History

Post by leo-rcc » Wed Feb 24, 2010 12:08 pm

I for one would be sad to see you leave. I've always enjoyed your contributions on RDF. But I wish you well on whatever you decide to do, no hard feelings.
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Re: I Quit: The Lessons of History

Post by J.A.Poisson » Wed Feb 24, 2010 12:09 pm

Thinking Aloud wrote:If it's any consolation, Ratz isn't owned or run by any one individual - it was created by one, yes, but the site is owned by an Association set up for the purpose. Ultimately one-person-control is what has caused the problems at RDF, and was the cause of the ruction that saw Ratz split from TAF.
IMHO I agree that that is a significant factor, and I agree that no one being first among equals is the way forward.
Yes, it's politics at the end of the day, but this place has been remarkably stable since its inception just over a year ago.

One hell of a birthday party going on just now though! :lol:
It's no secret that talkrational is my main internet home, and it has the same model. It's remarkably unstable, and blows itself up every couple of months. The cool thing is it mostly puts itself back together again fairly fast.

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