No, actually, I think pretty much everyone who uses ratz takes advantage of that policy, and I'm happy to see people here who don't feel welcome elsewhere, but saying that Brian is "out of touch" and that now "this is the refugee camp from ratskep now" as if it somehow changes the purpose or negates the original ethos of the forum is silly to me. You can say what you want (and I am using the generic you, and this applies to people on every side of these arguments), and have different opinions without making things ugly and personal or constantly calling people names and pushing them into boxes...or at least I think it would be nice if people could, but that's just my opinion. I get tired of the "whatever, fuck you, we can say what we want here" attitude that is common now because while true to a large extent, it completely ignores the 'play nice' bit.DaveDodo007 wrote:So newcomers taking advantage of Ratz free speech policy (a too rare commodity even with atheist forums nowadays) are using Ratz as a toilet now?rachelbean wrote::eyeroll:
Just because some ex-ratskeppers use this place as a toilet doesn't mean why it was created has changed. And the only thing keeping the lights on (besides the few familiar friendly faces which I come to see) is my vague hope that some other people who just want to hang out and have interesting and silly discussions and understand the idea of 'play nice' may eventually show up again.
And yeah, sometimes people are going to drop into your conversation and make a stupid remark or a joke or insult, and rolling with it is always going to work better than doubling-down on the seriousness

Also, just because someone doesn't like YOU doesn't mean they can't handle different opinions, they maybe just think the way you put across your opinions is obnoxious...or maybe that you smell funny
