Female Ejaculation

[CJ]

[The Curious Squid]

My ex-girlfriend ejaculated on my face once, I was taken back by it when it happened and had to clean it out of my beard before we could continue. Only ever happened that one time.

Edit: sorry, I just realised where this thread is, my comment is more personal experience than serious discussion. I'll add more to this to try and prevent a derail!

[The Curious Squid]

Controversies and debates

The debates in the current literature focus on three threads: whether ejaculation exists or not, the sources and composition of the fluid, and the role of female ejaculation in constructing theories of sexuality. [11] Inevitably such a debate becomes politicised in terms of people's beliefs, and is influenced by popular culture and pornography in addition to physico-chemical and behavioural studies. From a feminist perspective, there is resistance to what has been perceived as a male lens in interpreting the data and construct. More often than not the debate is tied to the existence or not of the G-spot,[52] [17] since stimulation of the anterior vaginal wall involves simultaneous stimulation of the para-urethral tissue, the site of the homologous prostatic glands and ducts, and stated source of the ejaculated fluid, and therefore it has been variously stated that stimulation of this spot resulted in ejaculation. These tissues, surrounding the distal urethra, and anterior to the vagina, have a common embryological origin to the prostatic tissue in the male.[53][54]

An example of the difficulties is provided by the contrasting views of Carol Darling and Heli Alzate. [55] [56] As Shannon Bell states,[11] essentially they are discussing two different phenomena. In an extensive survey, Darling and colleagues claim support for the existence of ejaculation,[5] while in a sharply critical response, Alzate states that direct experimentation fails to provide any evidence.[57] Alzate states,

the ignorance and/or confusion still prevalent among women about the anatomy and physiology of their sexual organs may make them mistake either vaginal lubrication or stress urinary incontinence for an "ejaculation"

Bell comments that Alzate simply dismisses women's subjective experiences in favour of rigorous scientific proof, and is typical of male sexologists withholding the validity of experience from women. Bell's critique lies at the heart of feminist concerns about this debate, namely a tendency to "disregard, reinterpret, and overwrite women's subjective descriptions". For some, she states, it is more a matter of belief than of physiology.

The discussion entered popular culture in 1982 with the publication of the bestselling The G-Spot: And Other Discoveries About Human Sexuality, by Ladas, Whipple, and Perry.[58] The book discussed the question of female ejaculation and brought the concept back into discussions of women's sexuality, both in the medical community and among the general public. [59][60][2] This was a popular account of three papers by the authors, the previous year, at the suggestion of Alice Khan Ladas.[39][40][41] Rebecca Chalker notes that this book was largely met with scorn, skepticism and disbelief.[2] The chapter on 'Female Ejaculation' is largely based on anecdotal testimony, and illustrates another issue in the debate, the weight placed on anecdotes and small numbers of observations compared to biomedical investigation and clinical trials. Importantly, a number of the women stated that they had been diagnosed with urinary incontinence. However the book advances another feminist theory, that because women's pleasure in their sexuality has been historically excluded, the pleasure of ejaculation has been either discounted or appropriated by health professionals as a physiological phenomenon.[61] Whipple continued to publicise her discoveries, including a 9 min video made in 1981 Orgasmic Expulsions of Fluid in the Sexually Stimulated Female. The Journal of Sex Research described the debate as 'heated' in 1984.[62] Josephine Sevely then followed up her 1978 study by publishing "Eve's Secrets: A new theory of female sexuality" in 1987, emphasising an integrated rather than fragmented approach to understanding female sexuality, with the clitoris, vagina and urethra depicted as a single sexual organ.[63][64] This not only challenged the traditional fragmentation of female sexuality into clitoral vs. vaginal sensation, but sexualised the urethra, and by reconstructing female sexual anatomy addressed traditional thinking about the differences in male and female genitalia, often described by feminists as phallocentric. [11]

Bell further questions why feminists have not been more outspoken in defence of women's control over female ejaculation, pointing out that the literature frames the discussion in only five separate ways; procreation, sexual pleasure, deviance, pathology, and a scientific mystery. [11] The continuing debate is further illustrated in the angry exchange of letters between the author and researchers in the American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology in 2002 following the publication of 'The G-spot: A modern gynecological myth' by Terrence Hines.[60] Even in 2007,[6][65] and 2008[64] the existence of a female prostate and of ejaculation are described as a matter of debate, and articles and book chapters continue to appear with subtitles such as "Fact or Fantasy".[2]

from Female Ejaculation

I can't post a link but the bit I highlighted as blue really shouldn't be in dispute since I've seen it in porn as well as experienced it in real life. If anybody is actually bothered enough to want to see a video where it is definitely obviously happening then I could PM it but the video isn't pretty.

[charlou]

My ex-girlfriend ejaculated on my face once, I was taken back by it when it happened and had to clean it out of my beard before we could continue. Only ever happened that one time.

Edit: sorry, I just realised where this thread is, my comment is more personal experience than serious discussion. I'll add more to this to try and prevent a derail!

Personal experience counts in serious discussion too, Paco.

Why did you feel you had to clean her ejaculate from your beard before continuing?

[Faithfree]

CJ, I think this really needs to be followed up with a poll in another forum, but I'm of to bed now.

[The Curious Squid]

For the same reason that if I have semen on my hands after masturbating or if I sneeze into my hand I have to clean it off, possibly just social conditioning to treat any bodily secretion as waste and something to be sanitised as soon as possible but probably more so because the consistancy is something that I don't like on my face. I reckon that the sociological factors are probably the main reason though.

[Xamonas Chegwé]

I have seen porn with female ejaculation too. And a lot of it is obviously fake moans and piss. But I have also seen some where it clearly isn't. It makes sense that

I know women that have said they have squirted but I have never been fortunate enough to experience it firsthand.

I have also heard tell that many women feel like they are going to wet themselves during orgasm but deliberately 'hold it in', not realising that it is actually ejaculation rather than urination.

[The Curious Squid]

I have seen porn with female ejaculation too. And a lot of it is obviously fake moans and piss. But I have also seen some where it clearly isn't. It makes sense that

I know women that have said they have squirted but I have never been fortunate enough to experience it firsthand.

I have also heard tell that many women feel like they are going to wet themselves during orgasm but deliberately 'hold it in', not realising that it is actually ejaculation rather than urination.

I've heard that when you do manage to find a woman's G-spot they can sometimes feel like they need to urinate so it wouldn't surprise me if there was some connection (if the g-spot even exists)

[Don't Panic]

I have seen porn with female ejaculation too. And a lot of it is obviously fake moans and piss. But I have also seen some where it clearly isn't. It makes sense that

I know women that have said they have squirted but I have never been fortunate enough to experience it firsthand.

I have also heard tell that many women feel like they are going to wet themselves during orgasm but deliberately 'hold it in', not realising that it is actually ejaculation rather than urination.

I've heard that when you do manage to find a woman's G-spot they can sometimes feel like they need to urinate so it wouldn't surprise me if there was some connection (if the g-spot even exists)

It exists, the feeling of a need to urinate apparently comes partly from pressure on the bladder during stimulation of the G-spot, but as she approaches orgasm it is usually a sign that she is going to cum.

Bit of a waste getting it in your beard, it tastes really good.

[The Curious Squid]

I have seen porn with female ejaculation too. And a lot of it is obviously fake moans and piss. But I have also seen some where it clearly isn't. It makes sense that

I know women that have said they have squirted but I have never been fortunate enough to experience it firsthand.

I have also heard tell that many women feel like they are going to wet themselves during orgasm but deliberately 'hold it in', not realising that it is actually ejaculation rather than urination.

I've heard that when you do manage to find a woman's G-spot they can sometimes feel like they need to urinate so it wouldn't surprise me if there was some connection (if the g-spot even exists)

It exists, the feeling of a need to urinate apparently comes partly from pressure on the bladder during stimulation of the G-spot, but as she approaches orgasm it is usually a sign that she is going to cum.

Bit of a waste getting it in your beard, it tastes really good.

It's just semen without the sperm isn't it? If so then I'm not too bothered about not having it in my mouth. It don't remember it really tasting of anything.

[Don't Panic]

I have seen porn with female ejaculation too. And a lot of it is obviously fake moans and piss. But I have also seen some where it clearly isn't. It makes sense that

I know women that have said they have squirted but I have never been fortunate enough to experience it firsthand.

I have also heard tell that many women feel like they are going to wet themselves during orgasm but deliberately 'hold it in', not realising that it is actually ejaculation rather than urination.

I've heard that when you do manage to find a woman's G-spot they can sometimes feel like they need to urinate so it wouldn't surprise me if there was some connection (if the g-spot even exists)

It exists, the feeling of a need to urinate apparently comes partly from pressure on the bladder during stimulation of the G-spot, but as she approaches orgasm it is usually a sign that she is going to cum.

Bit of a waste getting it in your beard, it tastes really good.

It's just semen without the sperm isn't it? If so then I'm not too bothered about not having it in my mouth. It don't remember it really tasting of anything.

Being a skeptic I'm just back from performing some emperical tests, women definitely can ejaculate.

[Bella Fortuna]

I guess I'll have to take the word of those who have experienced it, but I've never known any woman who does this nor (before reading here) any man who has seen such a thing in person. It does seem strange that in this day and age such a phenomena is so mysterious and unexplained by science.

[The Curious Squid]

The video CJ posted seems to indicate that some women need to ejaculate to orgasm but my ex only ever did it the once to my knowledge and she didn't have any complaints the rest of the time. Maybe it is just a rare thing difficult to test for it scientifically when the factors for bringing it about aren't that well understood (or is that your point?) On the night I managed to bring it about I had been single for close to 3 years and nervous as hell that I was going to be shit so was determined to do as much as I could to please her. Maybe all it takes is effort from the guy?

Plus a lot of the accounts of it are probably males boasting when it hasn't actually occured with them so a lot of accounts are probably skewed and unreliable. I'd like to see one of the female members share any experiences about this if it's happened to them. I didn't realise that it might be uncommon since I've seen it in porn and witnessed it first hand.

[CJ]

Seen it a couple of times with the same woman many years ago, it was her 'party piece' and she said it wasn't urine and she didn't have the urge to urinate when it happened. It is uncommon and as the video points out it may come from one of a number of sources, urine, vaginal secretions or the Gspot secretions mentioned or some combination of those factors.

[lordpasternack]

I once had something of a small squirt from that area during an orgasm while playing with myself a couple of years back. Nothing since, though. Just a fast sudden squirt of a rather small amount of liquid (a spoonful, at most), and that was it.