Who said anything about marriage?Hermit wrote:Oh! How scandalous. So you say, sex before marriage is actually happening? Wow! Tell me; how long has this been going on for?Seth wrote:While teenage pregnancies and births are down, except for a jump in the 70s and 80s, the unmarried pregnancy/delivery rate is up enormously.
Seth wrote:Mine is having sex before you are fully prepared to have and raise a child in a stable two-parent home where the family is not dependent on public largess for their economic support, should you get pregnant.Hermit wrote:What is your definition of irresponsible sex, then?
Again, who said anything about marriage? The phrase I used was extremely detailed and specific and did NOT include the word "marriage." A stable, self-supporting two-parent home ought to be considered a fundamental civil right for a minor child, and the state should prohibit child abuse and violation of the child's rights by irresponsible parents.So, is marriage necessary for that condition to be met? If not, why bring up the unmarried pregnancy/delivery rate?
FFS, you sound like a christian, or for that matter a muslim fundamentalist.
It did. The availability of contraceptives and abortion gave young people license to engage in sexual activities. Unfortunately not all of the teens who had sex took advantage of contraception or abortion, and some of them who did experienced expected and quantified failures of contraception. Some of those resorted to abortion in order to escape the consequences of their irresponsibility.In summary: You began by asserting that irresponsible sexual behaviour is unquestionably more prevalent because of the availability of abortion and of contraceptives.
I find that to be morally reprehensible. For the woman getting pregnant and creating a moral, ethical and legal burden of caring for and raising a child is one of the known consequences of having sex, protected or not, and for the man creating a moral, ethical and legal obligation of support for a child so created is also a known consequence of having sex with a fertile woman.
I'm in favor of people accepting and enduring the consequences of their actions, not being relieved of their responsibility to act ethically, morally and legally as part of enduring those consequences. This attitude leads to better, more honest, less irresponsible adults, which is what society needs rather than more irresponsible, dishonest, selfish dependent-class leeches.
I see no compelling reason why a woman with a normal pregnancy involving a normal child and the ordinary risks of pregnancy should not be required to carry the child to term and deliver it alive. I see no moral, ethical or social benefit to giving the sexually irresponsible a way out of their due and payable consequences just because it's inconvenient or uncomfortable to them. I think that the value of those innocent human lives outweighs any temporary discomfort, cost or risk undertaken by the parents as a natural and ordinary part of engaging in voluntary sexual relations.
I don't have a problem with the parents surrendering custody of the child to the state and being freed from financial liability if the state chooses to act to prohibit terminating the child's life. But I do object to abortion on demand as a matter of principle...the principle that every person ought to accept the consequences of freely-taken actions without complaint and without demanding relief from the state.
As for the stable two-parent home, historically this is what the lack of contraception and abortion does for the wellbeing of children:[/quote]teenage pregnancy rate prior to the 1960s was low and going down, but when The Pill was released, the rate of teenage pregnancy literally skyrocketed and has stayed high ever since. Lacking any means to counter the fact that the teenage pregnancy rate has plummeted since the availability of abortion and of contraceptives, you retreat to saying, erm, what precisely? Oh, I know. This: Irresponsible sexual behaviour is unquestionably more prevalent despite the fact that the teenage pregnancy rate has plummeted since the availability of abortion and of contraceptives.
Horseshit. Lack of contraception or abortion is not the cause of child abuse, poor decisionmaking and a refusal to deal with the consequences of having sex along with narcissistic selfishness and disregard for others. In other words, child abuse is caused by sociopathic parents, not the lack of contraception or abortion. The proper way to handle sociopathic parents is to not permit them to become parents and to remove any children they might create before the children can be harmed. One way to do that is to make such sociopathic behavior a capital crime.