Blind groper wrote:Seth.
Your last post makes you seem to be a terrible prude.
Only because you have a penchant for assuming that the author of an argument subscribes personally to that argument. Evidently you are having difficulty realizing that it's possible to entertain an idea without necessarily agreeing with it, and it's also possible to take a debatorial position that may be diametrically opposed to one's true personal beliefs for the purposes of playing "Devil's Advocate" to advance the debate.
What in Finagle's Name is wrong with sex before marriage?
Depends on who you ask.
If a guy and a gal want to bonk each other silly, and end up bouncing off the ceiling, why is that wrong?
Depends on who you ask. Are you in favor of teenage pregnancy? Given the fact that teenagers (or pre-teens for that matter, given that 50 percent of 12 year olds in the US are sexually active) are generally less responsible in their decisionmaking than adults (because their brains are not fully mature) and are likely to get STDs, pregnant, or otherwise be harmed by engaging in irresponsible and unwise sex, it seems reasonable to discuss constraints on personal sexual behavior that might harm the individual or society as a whole.
The concept that sex before marriage is wrong is one of Christian fundamentalists.
And Islamists, and most every other culture, religion or group that exists on earth today. I suspect there's a social reason for such social mores, not just a religious one.
It should not be part of the moral code of more enlightened and rational people.
Why not? Are you saying that there are never, ever any negative personal or societal consequences to pre-marital (or extra-marital) sexual promiscuity?
Sure, effective contraception should be used. They should use the contraceptive pill, or condoms, or some other effective method. I would personally like to see all young teenage girls offered a 5 year contraceptive implant every 5 years, till they no longer need it.
Interestingly, they can already obtain such contraceptives if they want to. Many of them don't want to for various reasons including the negative health effects of birth control like strokes, heart attacks and other physiological and psychological effects.
Free of charge, courtesy of the taxpayer (though that suggestion will, no doubt, get me accused of being a Marxist.).
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Indeed. I sympathize with the idea of contraceptives being available, but I disagree that I should be required to pay for anyone else but my own consequenceless sexual pleasure. I'm afraid I draw the line at subsidizing teenage sex play with taxpayer money. If they want to play, they can pay themselves.
Then they can bonk to their heart's content with no unwanted pregnancy.
Except of course for the fact that EVERY form of contraception except abstinence has a known failure rate. For condoms it's about 15 percent. For the Pill, it's 1 to 3 percent.
However, it is also true that the law is an ass, meaning such measures are not offered. It is true that young guys and gals are frequently careless and let their hormones over-ride their common sense. End result is lots of unwanted pregnancies.
Indeed.
Those women with the inconvenient fetus will go out and have abortions, regardless of anything you, Seth, might want.
Perhaps. But when abortion was illegal and hard to obtain, there were far fewer such pregnancies because women weighed the risks of pregnancy and the difficulty of obtaining an abortion, as well as its danger, as a factor in deciding whether or not to have sex. I'm not sure that this particular factor in the calculus of sex is inappropriate.
The best we can do for them is make it easy and provide professional clinics that will do the job cleanly without harming the gal or making her infertile.
That merely facilitates sexual promiscuity and irresponsible sexual behavior. Now, I'd agree that if the woman had to go to court and have a full hearing, with the father present and allowed to have input, before an abortion is authorized, that might be acceptable.
From a totally pragmatic view, that is by far the best course of action.
Other people think that dissuading women from having promiscuous, irresponsible sex is the best course of action.
That should also fall within the purview of any good libertarian, since we are maximising freedom of choice and action for the young people.
Two points: First, I agree with maximizing the choices of adults, which is why I have no objection to privately-funded contraception for adults, which acts before there is another human being involved. Second, as a Libertarian I believe that a voluntary sex act resulting in pregnancy creates a contractual obligation on the part of both parents to care for the new life they created until it is able to care for itself. When a woman becomes pregnant two additional parties to the sex contract appear: the fetus and the State, and thus the rights (and powers) of each must be respected. If a woman and a man do not wish to bind themselves to such an obligation, then they should refrain from having sex or get sterilized. But if they voluntarily engage in a sex act, and the known, natural and ordinary result occurs; a child, then they have created a voluntary obligation to that child that they cannot dispense with simply by killing the child, because that violates the child's rights and it violates their freely-accepted contractual duties and obligations.
[/quote] Trying to stop people exploring their sexuality is truly fascist.[/quote]
I'm suggesting no such thing. I'm merely saying that if they choose to "explore their sexuality" they are to be held fully accountable for the consequences of doing so, one major consequence of which is the creation of a new, individual living human being, who has (or should have at some point in gestation) rights that must also be respected.
What I object to in re abortion is that it frees women (and ONLY women) from the consequences of sexual irresponsibility, which is more likely to make them irresponsible, and it kills another living human being. That seems incredibly selfish and evil to me.
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