Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
Here's my take...
1. I think such places are fairly crass, and are part of a culture that tends to regard women as playthings for men, in a rather juvenile way. It's a stretch, however, to take the standard ultra-feminist line and say they are part of "rape culture"
2. However, they do not reach a level where intervention/banning by society/governments is justified - to do so would be a step too far in the nanny state direction...
And 42, note that rEv didn't advocate them being banned, just discouraged. I agree that this is rather vague, but here's one version of "discourage". If both men and women had better educational opportunities to move towards a more authentic form of adult relationships, perhaps hooters and strip clubs might just gradually fade away, like most of us hope will happen to churches...
1. I think such places are fairly crass, and are part of a culture that tends to regard women as playthings for men, in a rather juvenile way. It's a stretch, however, to take the standard ultra-feminist line and say they are part of "rape culture"
2. However, they do not reach a level where intervention/banning by society/governments is justified - to do so would be a step too far in the nanny state direction...
And 42, note that rEv didn't advocate them being banned, just discouraged. I agree that this is rather vague, but here's one version of "discourage". If both men and women had better educational opportunities to move towards a more authentic form of adult relationships, perhaps hooters and strip clubs might just gradually fade away, like most of us hope will happen to churches...
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
Alternatively they could just show us their tits more often, then we wouldn't have to pay to see them. It ain't rocket surgery.
Yeah well that's just, like, your opinion, man.
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
pErvinalia wrote:Sean Hayden wrote:I've never been there. I'd die of embarrassment. I really just wanted to say titty bar.
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
I find it a bit.... childish. I would not go in there that's for sure. Must be the stupidest of girls allowing themselves to be exploited.
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
I don't mind a stupid girl if she's there to be eye candy... would likely not want to engage her into a long term relationship, but you go to those places for food and entertainment, not to find a girlfriend.
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What's the entertainment? Push up bras and false tits?
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
Yeah, can't say I'd find much enjoyment there. If I wanted to perv on hot chicks I'd go to a strip club. Not that I'd do that now, but back in the uni days there were a couple of trips there.
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
Not on the question posed. You voiced an opinion, but the question was not whether society should discourage it, or some general question of what should be done about. The question was whether such enterprises shold be allowed to exist.pErvinalia wrote:
You asked for an opinion and I gave it. What exactly is the problem here?
No, that you think you get to just state your opinion and never defend it, never back it up. You just declare something, and then walk away. That's the opposite of how you treat others on this forum, which is to demand evidence, probe, and debate their opinions, and you ask many questions, demanding that they be answered (but you rarely, if ever, clearly answer a question posed to you.pErvinalia wrote: That I won't engage in your pathological need to debate topics endlessly?
This thread is no different. The question was whether they should be allowed to exist (and implicitly why or why not - because a discussion forum that does not go into arguments and reasons is not a discussion forum, it's poll). But you didn't answer it. You posted a vague, meaningless comment that "society" should "discourage" it. If you think, on a discussion forum, it's unfair for you to be asked: "what do you mean by society?" and "how should the discouragement be accomplished?" and "why?" Then, well, I'm not surprised.
Then don't participate. That's the solution to your boredom, and it would solve your issue of being bothered by my boring-ness. You'd never be infuriated. However, you can't seem to keep away.pErvinalia wrote:
This is why you are bore. You are like the Terminator of debating. You have no idea if you are doing the right thing, you are just programmed to keep going regardless until your opponents die of boredom/infuriation.
That's normal for you. You don't answer people's inquiries during discussions. You think that your statement is some sort of default position from which others always have the burden to argue against. Well, when anyone states a position on a topic, it is very common and normal for participants in the discussion to probe that position and try to determine what you mean and whether it makes sense. There is nothing wrong with doing that, whether a given participant argues too much for your liking or not. It doesn't change the fact that you chose to adopt a position on an issue tangential to the OP here, and now you won't even explain what your statement means or why you adopt the position and on what basis.pErvinalia wrote:
I don't want to discuss the topic further with you at the moment.
Then do them.pErvinalia wrote:
I've got other things on my mind.
Sure, it's you that can't. You are not interested in discussing the topic of a thread, yet you still can't keep yourself from clicking on it, and posting. When I have other things on my mind, I focus on them. If it's a different thread or topic, then I go there. I don't go to threads that I'm not interested in discussing, post, and then bleat about how I'm not interested in going to the party after I've already stepped through the door and had a drink.pErvinalia wrote: Are you going to be able to handle that?
LOL -- all you have to do is explain what you mean by "society"in this context, and how that society would act to discourage this kind of business.pErvinalia wrote: There's no need to blow it up into an incident. Can't you just accept that people aren't always going to want spend 30 pages watching you equivocate and misrepresent (among other things)?
Or, you could answer the question posed in the OP, and explain why you hold that view.
Or, if you really were not interested in it, and really found this repetitive, having been discussed many times before already, and if you really found it boring, we wouldn't see your screen name pop up in it at all. Instead, you want to state your position, have it left unchallenged and undiscussed, and then declare your participation over because you weren't interested in discussing such a boring, repetitive, topic in the first place.
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
I never said he did advocate them being banned. I just asked what he meant by "discouraged" (how? why? by whom?) and he said "by society" (and I pointed out that that too is vague in meaningless, as "society" doesn't really mean anything, and doesn't tell us how society would act to discourage it, if indeed it could act as a single entity in the first place.JimC wrote:Here's my take...
1. I think such places are fairly crass, and are part of a culture that tends to regard women as playthings for men, in a rather juvenile way. It's a stretch, however, to take the standard ultra-feminist line and say they are part of "rape culture"
2. However, they do not reach a level where intervention/banning by society/governments is justified - to do so would be a step too far in the nanny state direction...
And 42, note that rEv didn't advocate them being banned, just discouraged. I agree that this is rather vague, but here's one version of "discourage". If both men and women had better educational opportunities to move towards a more authentic form of adult relationships, perhaps hooters and strip clubs might just gradually fade away, like most of us hope will happen to churches...
The only thing I did was ask Pervin to clarify his position, and say what he means. Then he decided to call the topic and me boring, and repetitive - claim it's already been discussed and answered before, so he's not going to repeat himself, and declare he was never interested in discussing the stupid topic in the first place because he's interested in something else. That bullshit happens too often. Look, when he wants to probe someone else's position, he does so, with vigor - he demands evidence, and argument, which is all fair. However, he rarely responds in kind when people ask of him the same thing. He adopts vague positions, and often will drop vagueries into a thread, and then when someone says "so, is what you mean....?" and introduces a possible interpretation of what he's saying, he then flips out and accuses people of strawmanning and other fallacies (which he normally misuses) and then refuses to actually clarify or support his position, often claiming that he's already done so when he hasn't, or already covered it in another thread. The goal is to start a back and forth not about the issue but about the persons involved, and then it easily descends into his usual personal namecalling because if anyone continues to probe or ask for clarification/support for his argument, he starts stating or implying that they're stupid, can't read, or are dishonest.
I think anyone who follows along his postings sees that pattern, but he's very aggressive about attacking others, and making demands of them in an argument. So, I don't think it's unfair to simply get a short and plain statement of what he means by advancing a given position - especially when his position is stated not even in a full sentence, but as a terse phrase that could mean many things.
That's all -- I mean, JimC, don't you see him vigorously challenging posts and forum members here? He does so far, far more aggressively than "what do you mean by discourage?" and "can you clarify your argument as to what society would do and why, and what you mean by society in the first place?" How does the mere request for someone to back up the argument they advanced in a discussion forum (especially when that self-same person commonly does the same to others) become something untoward?
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
None of anyone's business. If they don't employ enough 'black' women, then let the negro population start their own Hooters and employ mostly black women. Nothing stopping them doing that.Forty Two wrote:[imgfit]Should restaurants like Twin Peaks and Hooters be allowed to exist?
They hire only waitresses, and only those that are traditionally viewed (arbitrarily, of course) as "attractive." And, their required uniform accents their sexual attributes. The purpose is to attract CIS-hetero males to spend money on food and beverages there.
Is this a business that should be allowed to exist?
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I notice that the Mary Whitehouse wowsers have retaliated to Forty Two's OP with demands that the pretty women should be wearing burkas. Well, fuck them: they can open their own burka covered women waitresses.
BTW, I don't agree that attractive is purely a matter of taste. It is scientifically proven that symmetry of features is a major component of what we find attractive, as is slenderness, good skin tone, nice set of teeth, etc. Some races are not as attractive as others, for example, central Australian Aborigines (you be the judge, if you're unbiased). The reason is that in those societies sexual selection (read it up) was not so important as in, say, Nordic ones, and so the things we find attractive were not selected for strongly. Take as comparison peacocks vs sloths.
So, yes, it should exist. I do NOT want a nanny state like Saudi Crapabia. Live & let live is my credo. SJWs go to Hell
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
Yes, in Dutchland, they exploit the smartest of girls in a mature, adult fashion.Scot Dutchy wrote:I find it a bit.... childish. I would not go in there that's for sure. Must be the stupidest of girls allowing themselves to be exploited.
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Where did I say or suggest that it is "unfair"? This is just more of your empty rhetorical games.Forty Two wrote:If you think, on a discussion forum, it's unfair for you to be asked: "what do you mean by society?" and "how should the discouragement be accomplished?" and "why?" Then, well, I'm not surprised.
That's exactly what I am doing. Yet you are getting your panties all in a twist about it. So should I spend 30 pages going back and forth with you, or should I not participate? Which one?Then don't participate.pErvinalia wrote:
This is why you are bore. You are like the Terminator of debating. You have no idea if you are doing the right thing, you are just programmed to keep going regardless until your opponents die of boredom/infuriation.
I am. That's why I'm not interested in spending 30 pages going back and forth with you.Then do them.pErvinalia wrote:
I've got other things on my mind.
I'm handling it fine. I'm not discussing the topic with you other than my initial opinions. You clearly aren't handling it well, as yet another wall of empty rhetoric from you attests.Sure, it's you that can't.pErvinalia wrote: Are you going to be able to handle that?
Who gives a fuck what you do? Are you under the mistaken impression that I want to be like you?When I have other things on my mind, I focus on them. If it's a different thread or topic, then I go there. I don't go to threads that I'm not interested in discussing, post, and then bleat about how I'm not interested in going to the party after I've already stepped through the door and had a drink.
You can discuss it as much as you like. I just won't be partaking in it for fear of a never ending equivocation and empty rhetoric fest.Or, if you really were not interested in it, and really found this repetitive, having been discussed many times before already, and if you really found it boring, we wouldn't see your screen name pop up in it at all. Instead, you want to state your position, have it left unchallenged and undiscussed, and then declare your participation over because you weren't interested in discussing such a boring, repetitive, topic in the first place.
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
How long will it be before the churches get in on the act?
Come on down to the mercy seat, show us your ass and shake your titties for Jesus.
Actually, it's probably already happened somewhere.
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I never said I wasn't interested in discussing the topic in the first place. This is a perfect example of the misrepresentation and/or empty rhetoric that you proffer up for page after never ending page.Forty Two wrote:I never said he did advocate them being banned. I just asked what he meant by "discouraged" (how? why? by whom?) and he said "by society" (and I pointed out that that too is vague in meaningless, as "society" doesn't really mean anything, and doesn't tell us how society would act to discourage it, if indeed it could act as a single entity in the first place.JimC wrote:Here's my take...
1. I think such places are fairly crass, and are part of a culture that tends to regard women as playthings for men, in a rather juvenile way. It's a stretch, however, to take the standard ultra-feminist line and say they are part of "rape culture"
2. However, they do not reach a level where intervention/banning by society/governments is justified - to do so would be a step too far in the nanny state direction...
And 42, note that rEv didn't advocate them being banned, just discouraged. I agree that this is rather vague, but here's one version of "discourage". If both men and women had better educational opportunities to move towards a more authentic form of adult relationships, perhaps hooters and strip clubs might just gradually fade away, like most of us hope will happen to churches...
The only thing I did was ask Pervin to clarify his position, and say what he means. Then he decided to call the topic and me boring, and repetitive - claim it's already been discussed and answered before, so he's not going to repeat himself, and declare he was never interested in discussing the stupid topic in the first place because he's interested in something else.
You still just haven't got it, despite me explaining it to you endlessly. I don't treat people who aren't worthy of respect with respect. They get disdain and ridicule. And you most certainly aren't worthy of respect (due to your dishonesty). Can you not see that I don't treat everyone like I treat you? Do I treat Jim, or Lak Lak or Sean Hayden like that? No. Why do you think that is?That bullshit happens too often. Look, when he wants to probe someone else's position, he does so, with vigor - he demands evidence, and argument, which is all fair. However, he rarely responds in kind when people ask of him the same thing. He adopts vague positions, and often will drop vagueries into a thread, and then when someone says "so, is what you mean....?" and introduces a possible interpretation of what he's saying, he then flips out and accuses people of strawmanning and other fallacies (which he normally misuses) and then refuses to actually clarify or support his position, often claiming that he's already done so when he hasn't, or already covered it in another thread. The goal is to start a back and forth not about the issue but about the persons involved, and then it easily descends into his usual personal namecalling because if anyone continues to probe or ask for clarification/support for his argument, he starts stating or implying that they're stupid, can't read, or are dishonest.
I think anyone who follows along his postings sees that pattern, but he's very aggressive about attacking others, and making demands of them in an argument. So, I don't think it's unfair to simply get a short and plain statement of what he means by advancing a given position - especially when his position is stated not even in a full sentence, but as a terse phrase that could mean many things.
That's all -- I mean, JimC, don't you see him vigorously challenging posts and forum members here? He does so far, far more aggressively than "what do you mean by discourage?" and "can you clarify your argument as to what society would do and why, and what you mean by society in the first place?" How does the mere request for someone to back up the argument they advanced in a discussion forum (especially when that self-same person commonly does the same to others) become something untoward?
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Re: Twin Peaks and Hooters: Sexist and Misogynistic?
Almost certainly in Vegas..mistermack wrote:How long will it be before the churches get in on the act?
Come on down to the mercy seat, show us your ass and shake your titties for Jesus.
Actually, it's probably already happened somewhere.
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"Socialized medicine is just exactly as morally defensible as gassing and cooking Jews" - Seth. Yes, he really did say that..
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"I am seriously thinking of going on a spree killing" - Svartalf.
"The Western world is fucking awesome because of mostly white men" - DaveDodo007.
"Socialized medicine is just exactly as morally defensible as gassing and cooking Jews" - Seth. Yes, he really did say that..
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