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Post by hadespussercats » Mon Mar 14, 2011 4:00 pm

Seth wrote:
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Robert_S wrote:Hades, What was Warren's question that you passed along?

You might have a point about being pregnant and that being in some way -I don't know of oppressive is the right word- maybe intimidating or emotionally distressing to women who are already facing emotional stress.

And i love Planned Parenthood. I used to get condoms from them occasionally when I was broke.
Thanks for pointing out that last bit-- might help shut Seth up. Well, probably not.

And I would totally understand if PP decided I might upset abortion clients (though when I went there, one of my doctors was heavily showing-- and my interviewer pointed out something similar in our meeting.) After all, that concern was why I brought up my pregnancy in the interview in the first place-- I wasn't showing then. I could have just kept my mouth shut. It'd be nice if they said so, though.

I wonder if the reason they haven't is because telling me they're turning me down because of pregnancy might open them up to a discrimination suit. (I wouldn't sue-- but they might not believe that.)

But I don't see how my pregnancy would cause a problem if I was working at a computer or preparing mailings in the offices next door.

Warren wanted to know if it was possible to donate directly to his local clinic, instead of making a donation to the national organization.
If they hire you while you're pregnant, they become obligated to provide you with, I believe, six weeks of unpaid family medical leave when you deliver, which means they lose your work capacity for a time, and have to find a replacement temporarily and train that person, and they have to keep your job open for you until you return.

In France, you have a right by law to get your old job back for up to THREE YEARS after you have had a child, and you get paid by the government to have the child to boot. I have acquaintances who are French citizens, and the woman was a high-level bank executive. She got pregnant and left her job to raise her child, and then got pregnant THREE MORE TIMES within 3 years of the last birth, which means that she was able to get paid and return to her job FIFTEEN YEARS after she left it, and they were required by law to put her back in her old position, at her old pay scale, which meant firing the person they had replaced her with after 15 years of service. And she was 15 years behind the power curve in banking and has had to be massively reeducated, at company expense, not to mention the waste of money associated with firing her stand-in. It probably cost the bank more than a million dollars over 15 years to obey French maternity leave laws. That's hardly good business practice.

The only reason she's not still sucking at the French public teat is that she failed to get pregnant in time after the birth of her last child, although she tried very hard to do so. She intended to milk the system for the rest of her life if she'd been able to do so.

Totally fucked up, the French, and they deserve what they get, which is economic bankruptcy.
It's a volunteer position. I wouldn't be getting paid, whether I was on leave or not.

But it is making it tricky for me to market myself for paying jobs-- particularly since the work I usually do-- theatre crafts-- often involves working with toxins, and I'm trying to avoid turning my son into a fish baby.
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Post by hadespussercats » Mon Mar 14, 2011 4:05 pm

rachelbean wrote:
hadespussercats wrote:
Seth wrote: Well, that's would be because "Planned Parenthood" is not really about family planning, it's about genocide and killing children. That's how Planned Parenthood makes it's money, by providing abortions to low-income minority women. That's why it locates the majority of its clinics in low-income minority neighborhoods, so they can encourage irresponsible sexual behavior and profit from giving ignorant poor (mostly) black women abortions, which assists with the eugenics agenda of the organization's founder, Margaret Sanger. You do indeed set a bad example for them by wishing to create life rather than destroy it.

Here's an experiment for you to try, and I'm perfectly serious. Go to another clinic and tell them that you really want to work for Planned Parenthood in any capacity, and that you want to abort your child, but you need a job of some sort right away to help pay for it. Get back to us on how quickly they offer you a job.

Seriously.
Seth, Seth, Seth.

I used PP as my source for annual GYN exams, birth control pills, and STD screenings for, oh, over a decade at least. Thanks to services like theirs, I never needed an abortion, and I got at least a base level of medical care even without health insurance (I went through most of my twenties without.)

Plus, PP allows people to pay for abortions and other services based on income. If I needed an abortion and could show them I couldn't pay for it, they'd find a way to get me that abortion-- no job necessary.
:this:

A friend of mine got pregnant and decided to give her child up for adoption because she could not bring herself to have an abortion but knew that she was not capable or ready to be a parent (I won't go into the details, but she was completely right about that). Planned Parenthood helped her every step of the way in having a healthy pregnancy, finding a couple to adopt the baby, and giving birth, all without charging a cent and definitely without suggesting abortion.

When my sister was out of work and they were the only place she could go she went for a check-up and they found pre-cancerous cells which she had to have a procedure to remove. Again, done completely free. I also was able to get check-ups and free birth control when I did not have insurance, so when I did have a job and good insurance I was happy to donate money to them.
Thanks for sharing this, rachelbean. It's great to make sure the word gets out about the full range of services PP offers-- crucial health care that many women wouldn't be able to get any other way.
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Post by hadespussercats » Mon Mar 14, 2011 4:11 pm

Seth wrote:
Gallstones wrote:
Seth wrote:
rachelbean wrote: :this:

A friend of mine got pregnant and decided to give her child up for adoption because she could not bring herself to have an abortion but knew that she was not capable or ready to be a parent (I won't go into the details, but she was completely right about that). Planned Parenthood helped her every step of the way in having a healthy pregnancy, finding a couple to adopt the baby, and giving birth, all without charging a cent and definitely without suggesting abortion.

When my sister was out of work and they were the only place she could go she went for a check-up and they found pre-cancerous cells which she had to have a procedure to remove. Again, done completely free. I also was able to get check-ups and free birth control when I did not have insurance, so when I did have a job and good insurance I was happy to donate money to them.
How nice of them. Al Capone spread money around like toilet paper to try to buy off juries, and the Mafia never shits where it eats and takes good care of the people in their communities. That doesn't mean they aren't criminals engaged in crimes that hurt people, and Planned Parenthood does exactly that when it facilitates child-rape by refusing to obey mandatory reporting laws and when it advises pimps how to evade the law so their underage child-sex slaves can get easy abortions and get right back to work. That one fact destroys any and all good Planned Parenthood might do, all of which can be done by some other, more ethical and moral organization that doesn't trade in sex slavery and facilitate prostitution.

Oh come on!

Seth, please substantiate these outrageous claims.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9Zj9yx2 ... re=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EatmoUdpoFs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Abdvj7rP ... re=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-nhMPwyHt80
YouTube is my trusted source for reliable news.

Regardless, are you suggesting forcing underage girls to bear their rape babies is preferable? Or are you suggesting that PP, with limited resources and under constant attack, should expand its mission to include stamping out the sex trade and putting pimps out of business?

PP workers perform a valuable service, but they aren't superheroes.
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Post by hadespussercats » Mon Mar 14, 2011 4:14 pm

floppit wrote:Hades, when I was pregnant I was volunteering in a homeless day centre. I had been working as a befriender and in the kitchens but once I started to show they asked me to stay in the kitchen area, basically away from the service users. To say I was miffed about this is an understatement!! First of all most (of the very little experienced) conflict was between kitchen staff and service users as there were limits to what was available and a strict closing time, outside the kitchen there was no such conflict. Secondly, the counter was easily jumpable (re their concerns over the mentally unstable!) and once in the kitchen it was chocka block with knives! Thirdly, the kitchen work involved boiling water, bubbling lasagne, wet tiled floors, greasy floors etc etc - hardly a safe place!

I stuck to my guns and asked that the incident/accident books be reviewed and IF they showed the majority of serious harm happening from clients I would stay in the kitchen but IF the majority stemmed from the kitchen I would work with the clients. Anyone who has ever spent any time in a commercial kitchen will know, as I did, what the results were after reviewing fact over feeling. I was released from the kitchen, positively discouraged from helping in the kitchen, I worked - very safely till 1 week post due date with the clients!

I was REALLY lucky. I had already been volunteering there long enough for them to be confident that I was very able to deal with things peacefully and they were open about their fears. had I applied pregnant I don't doubt the default setting would have been just to say no.

In reality, being heavily pregnant made life very easy for me across age groups. From the youngest teen males, the roughest women, to the insane and totally plastered it was easier for me to ask for things and get good results. In fact if I started clearing tables it would set off so much help that the tables cleared themselves! In the games/pool room once I complained someone randomly shouting out the window made me jump (past my due date!). The window was shut, young bloke apologetic, even sheepish!

There are positive and negative sides to how I got treated pregnant everywhere, not just where I volunteered. I found it interesting and informative but for the most part there wasn't much I could do to change it.
I don't have anything to add, Floppit-- I'm just glad you shared this.
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Post by hadespussercats » Mon Mar 14, 2011 4:15 pm

maiforpeace wrote:You're kidding, Seth, Youtube videos? I smell people like James O’Keefe and Hannah Giles behind those. :lol:

Given how many enemies Planned Parenthood has, you can't provide one instance of actual criminal wrongdoing that has been prosecuted?

As a teenager, I first went to Planned Parenthood to get birth control. Then later on when that birth control failed, I received an abortion from them. (or, as you might put it Seth, became a bady killer) Without the help of Planned Parenthood, I can't imagine what my life would have been like if I had been forced to keep that child. Planned Parenthood gave me my life back, and added to the quality of it immeasurably. They get a nice donation from me every year. :tup:

Not all of us are built to care for, or pay for the care of six brats (ugh, what a nightmare!), much less one of them.
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Post by Seth » Mon Mar 14, 2011 5:44 pm

hadespussercats wrote:
Seth wrote:
Gallstones wrote:
Seth wrote:
rachelbean wrote: :this:

A friend of mine got pregnant and decided to give her child up for adoption because she could not bring herself to have an abortion but knew that she was not capable or ready to be a parent (I won't go into the details, but she was completely right about that). Planned Parenthood helped her every step of the way in having a healthy pregnancy, finding a couple to adopt the baby, and giving birth, all without charging a cent and definitely without suggesting abortion.

When my sister was out of work and they were the only place she could go she went for a check-up and they found pre-cancerous cells which she had to have a procedure to remove. Again, done completely free. I also was able to get check-ups and free birth control when I did not have insurance, so when I did have a job and good insurance I was happy to donate money to them.
How nice of them. Al Capone spread money around like toilet paper to try to buy off juries, and the Mafia never shits where it eats and takes good care of the people in their communities. That doesn't mean they aren't criminals engaged in crimes that hurt people, and Planned Parenthood does exactly that when it facilitates child-rape by refusing to obey mandatory reporting laws and when it advises pimps how to evade the law so their underage child-sex slaves can get easy abortions and get right back to work. That one fact destroys any and all good Planned Parenthood might do, all of which can be done by some other, more ethical and moral organization that doesn't trade in sex slavery and facilitate prostitution.

Oh come on!

Seth, please substantiate these outrageous claims.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9Zj9yx2 ... re=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EatmoUdpoFs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Abdvj7rP ... re=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-nhMPwyHt80
YouTube is my trusted source for reliable news.
YouTube is merely a grand repository of reports and evidence on the subject that comes from numerous sources, including reliable news agencies and the people who made the undercover videos. If you have an issue with the veracity of an individual video or report, that's one thing, but to try to dismiss the evidence merely because the reports happen to be posted on YouTube is mindless denial.
Regardless, are you suggesting forcing underage girls to bear their rape babies is preferable? Or are you suggesting that PP, with limited resources and under constant attack, should expand its mission to include stamping out the sex trade and putting pimps out of business?
I'm suggesting that they OBEY THE LAW and act ethically and morally when confronted with evidence of child rape and child prostitution.
PP workers perform a valuable service, but they aren't superheroes.
Nor are they moral or ethical people. The evidence shows that all they care about is making money by providing abortions.

Their duty is to report such instances to the police, as the law requires, so that the children can be freed from sexual slavery. The law does not forbid PP from providing abortions to children, but in many places it does require parental notification and/or police reporting when there is a suspicion of sexual exploitation. Those laws exist to protect children and they are being ignored wholesale by PP. There are numerous examples of PP telling undercover reporters, including Lila Rose herself, not to mention that the girl is under age, and not to mention the age of the man who impregnated her, even after she's done exactly that already.

The evidence is clear that they DON'T CARE whether the child is being raped by an adult, and they DON'T WANT TO KNOW, and will advise patients to lie about it specifically in order to avoid liability and having to report to the police. This is a widespread, systemic criminal practice that could subject PP to prosecution under the RICO statutes.
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Post by Seth » Mon Mar 14, 2011 6:31 pm

maiforpeace wrote:You're kidding, Seth, Youtube videos? I smell people like James O’Keefe and Hannah Giles behind those. :lol:
So what? The videos speak for themselves. They didn't force the ACORN workers or the PP workers to incriminate themselves and give advice on how to defraud the government and violate the law. O'Keefe and Giles have done this country a great service by exposing rampant corruption and illegal activities in liberal organizations that are defrauding the taxpayers.
Given how many enemies Planned Parenthood has, you can't provide one instance of actual criminal wrongdoing that has been prosecuted?
It's very difficult to prosecute PP for criminal acts when the criminal acts are carefully concealed by PP and the victim both. The whole point of the undercover videos is to rip the cloak away from the organization and reveal its corruption. PP consistently throws any employee who is exposed expounding PP true positions under the bus, claiming that it was the employee who was at fault, and it takes great care NOT to leave documentary evidence of it's criminal acts by, as can be seen in the videos, telling underage girls who have been raped by adults not to tell PP the age of the sex partner precisely so that they can have plausible deniability. Young girls seeking an abortion don't want to risk not getting the abortion, and they do as they are told, but the evidence is clear that in numerous cases PP knows full well that the child is having sex with an adult, but fails to report it. Eventually PP will get prosecuted, just as the abortion doctor Dr. Kermit Gosnell of Philadelphia, who is accused of killing babies after delivery, and four of his clinic workers, have been arrested. Such things take time, but the PP criminality is beginning to unravel thanks to the undercover videos.

And while it is not illegal to advise pimps how to get abortions and medical services for their underage imported sex slaves, an ethical organization would immediately report the instance to the police and would cooperate fully with the police in investigating the individuals involved in order to track them down and put them out of business. There is NO evidence that PP has ever reported such instances to the police or cooperated with the police in freeing young sex slaves from their bondage. It may be presumed, however, that PP has done the opposite, and has facilitated child sex slavery by providing services to pimps and underage prostitutes without making the required police reports and without taking any action to free the children from their plight.

Certainly that deserves to be known by the public, so that the public can decide if federal funds should continue to flow to the organization, and whether or not the public should continue to support such corruption and greed.

As a teenager, I first went to Planned Parenthood to get birth control. Then later on when that birth control failed, I received an abortion from them. (or, as you might put it Seth, became a bady killer)
Did you know that one of the reasons your birth control might have failed is that PP might be deliberately dispensing specific brands of contraceptives that are more likely to fail than other, better brands? There are allegations that the organization deliberately dispenses oral birth control pills that must be taken exactly on schedule, and that have a significantly higher failure rate if they are not taken at the same time each day and that PP knows this and dispenses these specific drugs rather than more "forgiving" brands to young women who are unlikely to be rigorous about taking their pills correctly? This would comport with PP's "give them an abortion no matter what" business plan, because they don't make as much money distributing contraceptives as they do providing abortions.

Without the help of Planned Parenthood, I can't imagine what my life would have been like if I had been forced to keep that child.
You would have been a mother, like billions of women before you. In all likelihood you would have found that being a mother is a mixture of reward and sacrifice, but in the end, if you settle to the task and just do it, is, in the end, more reward than sacrifice. This seems to be the majority experience, as demonstrated by the continued existence of the human race.
Planned Parenthood gave me my life back, and added to the quality of it immeasurably. They get a nice donation from me every year. :tup:

Not all of us are built to care for, or pay for the care of six brats (ugh, what a nightmare!), much less one of them.
How sad that you feel this way about children. Interestingly, I used to feel much the same way, back when I was young and stupid. I thought kids were a nuisance and could see no point in anyone having one, and that abortion on demand was a great idea.

Then I grew up and became an adult, dispelled my gross ignorance, suppressed my atavistic selfishness and took the time to actually discover the great joy of children. There is nothing quite as rewarding as watching a toddler, beginning at about 18 months, truly begin to learn and explore and speak.

The joy of being around them is inexpressible to someone who is as selfish and self-centered as one who kills their own child out of a misguided and atavistic sense of bloated self-worth and narrow-minded greed and selfishness rather than buck up and accept personal responsibility for her actions. Personally, I use great care in controlling where my semen is deposited so that I can live an ethical and moral life and do not have to bear the moral burden of creating a new life that can be snuffed out without my participation or permission. I expect and demand no less from women. Hedonistic pleasure is not a moral justification for careless sexual behavior that leads to the killing of a child out of convenience and selfish personal pleasure. Sex should never be undertaken without due regard for the risks and potential consequences, and a willingness on both parties part to accept and live with those consequences rather than killing a resulting child, should one's contraceptive precautions fail. Abortion should never be a last resort for failed contraception, it should ONLY be permitted if the woman has been raped, or if the child is FATALLY deformed. Otherwise, women and men both should act like rational human beings and accept the consequences of their actions and get on with being good parents. You play, you pay, and you don't get do-overs. If you don't want to chance being a parent, then don't have sex. It's just that simple.

It is probably better that deranged and delusional people who use abortion as birth control aren't allowed to have kids, it's true, because they turn out to be horrible parents who abuse their children and do things like leave a two year old and an 8 month old alone in a bathtub, where the two-year-old accidentally turns on the hot water, gets out of the tub and leaves the 8 month old to die of scalding and drowning while "mom" steps out to buy some cigarettes and beer.

Yes, preventing such narcissistic morons from having children from having children is a good idea, and I'd happily fund a No Parenthood clinic where such women, and men, would receive mandatory sterilization. But it would be best if it were done before they needed an abortion. Since that's not possible, the alternative I think is to REQUIRE PP to sterilize any woman who has an abortion, since clearly that woman has decided that her happiness and convenience is more important than another living human being, and thus should not be allowed to ever have children.

Requiring Planned Parenthood to change its name to No Parenthood would at least be truth in advertising.

That work for you?
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Post by Seth » Mon Mar 14, 2011 6:38 pm

hadespussercats wrote:
Seth wrote:
hadespussercats wrote: Seth, Seth, Seth.

I used PP as my source for annual GYN exams, birth control pills, and STD screenings for, oh, over a decade at least. Thanks to services like theirs, I never needed an abortion, and I got at least a base level of medical care even without health insurance (I went through most of my twenties without.)

Plus, PP allows people to pay for abortions and other services based on income. If I needed an abortion and could show them I couldn't pay for it, they'd find a way to get me that abortion-- no job necessary.
As long as you recognize that PP is in the abortion BUSINESS, with the emphasis on generating profits from abortion, and that they are NOT an altruistic organization dedicated to women's health, I'm fine with your decision. The problem is that they violate the law every day of the week by providing abortions to underage victims of rape without informing the police as they are required to do by law, and in doing so they send the girl right back into the abusive relationship without any place to turn. The evidence of this sort of malfeasance is overwhelming, among other crimes and moral and ethical lapses.
I don't recognize that PP is an abortion business. I know many women who use or used PP for the same reasons I did-- getting birth control, gyn exams, and STD screening.

You haven't posted a source for your comment about underage rape victims, so I don't know if it's worth responding to. However, I don't see anything wrong with providing abortions for underage rape victims-- honestly, I think they are the people who should get to cut right to the front of the line at the clinic.

If this is the sort of behavior that's supposed to make me think ill of PP, well, you've missed your mark, by at least a mile.
PP is not prohibited from providing abortion services to underage rape victims, it is merely required to REPORT THE RAPE to the police, so the police can investigate and prevent it from happening again. In many cases, the aborted child is a product of incest. The father brings the daughter in for an abortion, has his incestuous "mistake" aborted, and then takes the daughter right back home and rapes her again. Planned Parenthood is required by law in most states to report any underage abortions so that the police can enforce the laws about raping minors. But it refuses to do so, and that's a problem, and a criminal offense. Like many other "mandatory reporters," PP had a legal duty to report incidents of suspected child rape, but the evidence shows that they are deliberately and explicitly evading such laws.

And while PP does provide other reproductive services, their profit-making arm is the abortion industry. Their other services are loss-leader come-ons to get women in the door so that they can be propagandized into having abortions.
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Post by Seth » Mon Mar 14, 2011 6:40 pm

hadespussercats wrote:
Seth wrote:
hadespussercats wrote:
Robert_S wrote:Hades, What was Warren's question that you passed along?

You might have a point about being pregnant and that being in some way -I don't know of oppressive is the right word- maybe intimidating or emotionally distressing to women who are already facing emotional stress.

And i love Planned Parenthood. I used to get condoms from them occasionally when I was broke.
Thanks for pointing out that last bit-- might help shut Seth up. Well, probably not.

And I would totally understand if PP decided I might upset abortion clients (though when I went there, one of my doctors was heavily showing-- and my interviewer pointed out something similar in our meeting.) After all, that concern was why I brought up my pregnancy in the interview in the first place-- I wasn't showing then. I could have just kept my mouth shut. It'd be nice if they said so, though.

I wonder if the reason they haven't is because telling me they're turning me down because of pregnancy might open them up to a discrimination suit. (I wouldn't sue-- but they might not believe that.)

But I don't see how my pregnancy would cause a problem if I was working at a computer or preparing mailings in the offices next door.

Warren wanted to know if it was possible to donate directly to his local clinic, instead of making a donation to the national organization.
If they hire you while you're pregnant, they become obligated to provide you with, I believe, six weeks of unpaid family medical leave when you deliver, which means they lose your work capacity for a time, and have to find a replacement temporarily and train that person, and they have to keep your job open for you until you return.

In France, you have a right by law to get your old job back for up to THREE YEARS after you have had a child, and you get paid by the government to have the child to boot. I have acquaintances who are French citizens, and the woman was a high-level bank executive. She got pregnant and left her job to raise her child, and then got pregnant THREE MORE TIMES within 3 years of the last birth, which means that she was able to get paid and return to her job FIFTEEN YEARS after she left it, and they were required by law to put her back in her old position, at her old pay scale, which meant firing the person they had replaced her with after 15 years of service. And she was 15 years behind the power curve in banking and has had to be massively reeducated, at company expense, not to mention the waste of money associated with firing her stand-in. It probably cost the bank more than a million dollars over 15 years to obey French maternity leave laws. That's hardly good business practice.

The only reason she's not still sucking at the French public teat is that she failed to get pregnant in time after the birth of her last child, although she tried very hard to do so. She intended to milk the system for the rest of her life if she'd been able to do so.

Totally fucked up, the French, and they deserve what they get, which is economic bankruptcy.
It's a volunteer position. I wouldn't be getting paid, whether I was on leave or not.

But it is making it tricky for me to market myself for paying jobs-- particularly since the work I usually do-- theatre crafts-- often involves working with toxins, and I'm trying to avoid turning my son into a fish baby.
Understandable, but pregnancy is, fortunately, a temporary thing.
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Re: Planned Parenthood doesn't want my stinkin' help.

Post by hadespussercats » Mon Mar 14, 2011 6:55 pm

Seth wrote: And while PP does provide other reproductive services, their profit-making arm is the abortion industry. Their other services are loss-leader come-ons to get women in the door so that they can be propagandized into having abortions.
Planned Parenthood is a non-profit organization, Seth.
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Re: Planned Parenthood doesn't want my stinkin' help.

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hadespussercats wrote:Seth wrote: And while PP does provide other reproductive services, their profit-making arm is the abortion industry. Their other services are loss-leader come-ons to get women in the door so that they can be propagandized into having abortions.

Planned Parenthood is a non-profit organization, Seth.
It makes one fuck-load of money providing abortions.
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Re: Planned Parenthood doesn't want my stinkin' help.

Post by hadespussercats » Mon Mar 14, 2011 6:59 pm

Seth wrote: Since that's not possible, the alternative I think is to REQUIRE PP to sterilize any woman who has an abortion, since clearly that woman has decided that her happiness and convenience is more important than another living human being, and thus should not be allowed to ever have children.
The same woman who wouldn't have made a good mother at 16 and chose to have an abortion might make an excellent mother at 25. The woman who couldn't support a child, or who had health concerns that contra-indicated pregnancy at 28 might not have the same constraints at 32.
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Re: Planned Parenthood doesn't want my stinkin' help.

Post by hadespussercats » Mon Mar 14, 2011 7:03 pm

Seth wrote: Did you know that one of the reasons your birth control might have failed is that PP might be deliberately dispensing specific brands of contraceptives that are more likely to fail than other, better brands? There are allegations that the organization deliberately dispenses oral birth control pills that must be taken exactly on schedule, and that have a significantly higher failure rate if they are not taken at the same time each day and that PP knows this and dispenses these specific drugs rather than more "forgiving" brands to young women who are unlikely to be rigorous about taking their pills correctly? This would comport with PP's "give them an abortion no matter what" business plan, because they don't make as much money distributing contraceptives as they do providing abortions.
Seth, all bc pills work better if they're taken at the same time each day. The Ortho-tricyclen 1-35 that I got as a clinic pack from PP was the same medicine I used to get from my family GP when I was in my teens.

As for the supposed "fuckload of money" PP makes from abortions-- the money they make is used to defray the costs of the services and medicines they provide, often at below-market-level prices or for free.
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Post by hadespussercats » Mon Mar 14, 2011 7:06 pm

Seth wrote: how sad that you feel this way about children. Interestingly, I used to feel much the same way, back when I was young and stupid. I thought kids were a nuisance and could see no point in anyone having one, and that abortion on demand was a great idea.

Then I grew up and became an adult, dispelled my gross ignorance, suppressed my atavistic selfishness and took the time to actually discover the great joy of children. There is nothing quite as rewarding as watching a toddler, beginning at about 18 months, truly begin to learn and explore and speak.

The joy of being around them is inexpressible to someone who is as selfish and self-centered as one who kills their own child out of a misguided and atavistic sense of bloated self-worth and narrow-minded greed and selfishness rather than buck up and accept personal responsibility for her actions. Personally, I use great care in controlling where my semen is deposited so that I can live an ethical and moral life and do not have to bear the moral burden of creating a new life that can be snuffed out without my participation or permission.
So apparently you haven't overcome your own atavistic selfishness and had some children of your own. And however involved you may be in your nephews' and nieces' lives, being an uncle is not the same as being a parent.
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Re: Planned Parenthood doesn't want my stinkin' help.

Post by hadespussercats » Mon Mar 14, 2011 7:12 pm

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Robert_S wrote:Hades, What was Warren's question that you passed along?

You might have a point about being pregnant and that being in some way -I don't know of oppressive is the right word- maybe intimidating or emotionally distressing to women who are already facing emotional stress.

And i love Planned Parenthood. I used to get condoms from them occasionally when I was broke.
Thanks for pointing out that last bit-- might help shut Seth up. Well, probably not.

And I would totally understand if PP decided I might upset abortion clients (though when I went there, one of my doctors was heavily showing-- and my interviewer pointed out something similar in our meeting.) After all, that concern was why I brought up my pregnancy in the interview in the first place-- I wasn't showing then. I could have just kept my mouth shut. It'd be nice if they said so, though.

I wonder if the reason they haven't is because telling me they're turning me down because of pregnancy might open them up to a discrimination suit. (I wouldn't sue-- but they might not believe that.)

But I don't see how my pregnancy would cause a problem if I was working at a computer or preparing mailings in the offices next door.

Warren wanted to know if it was possible to donate directly to his local clinic, instead of making a donation to the national organization.
If they hire you while you're pregnant, they become obligated to provide you with, I believe, six weeks of unpaid family medical leave when you deliver, which means they lose your work capacity for a time, and have to find a replacement temporarily and train that person, and they have to keep your job open for you until you return.

In France, you have a right by law to get your old job back for up to THREE YEARS after you have had a child, and you get paid by the government to have the child to boot. I have acquaintances who are French citizens, and the woman was a high-level bank executive. She got pregnant and left her job to raise her child, and then got pregnant THREE MORE TIMES within 3 years of the last birth, which means that she was able to get paid and return to her job FIFTEEN YEARS after she left it, and they were required by law to put her back in her old position, at her old pay scale, which meant firing the person they had replaced her with after 15 years of service. And she was 15 years behind the power curve in banking and has had to be massively reeducated, at company expense, not to mention the waste of money associated with firing her stand-in. It probably cost the bank more than a million dollars over 15 years to obey French maternity leave laws. That's hardly good business practice.

The only reason she's not still sucking at the French public teat is that she failed to get pregnant in time after the birth of her last child, although she tried very hard to do so. She intended to milk the system for the rest of her life if she'd been able to do so.

Totally fucked up, the French, and they deserve what they get, which is economic bankruptcy.
It's a volunteer position. I wouldn't be getting paid, whether I was on leave or not.

But it is making it tricky for me to market myself for paying jobs-- particularly since the work I usually do-- theatre crafts-- often involves working with toxins, and I'm trying to avoid turning my son into a fish baby.
Understandable, but pregnancy is, fortunately, a temporary thing.
True, pregnancy is temporary. Still, if I weren't married to someone who is employed and able, at least for the moment, to make rent, I might have been in the shit. And the child that results from the pregnancy isn't temporary-- at least, no more than I am.

I might not have been able to make the same choices in that situation that I'm happy to make as things stand.
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