maiforpeace wrote:Warren Dew wrote:maiforpeace wrote:The perpetrator was assigned damages as well, not just the church.
From your link:
Kendrick, 58 ... did not attend the trial in Oakland or defend himself after signing a deal with Conti's attorneys, who agreed not to try to collect the judgment from him.
So the perpetrator is not on the hook for the money. Sounds like it was just a scheme to extract money from the church.
My mistake. I missed that part about him not paying.
Regarding it being a scheme?
Whether damages came from the the perpetrator or the church, they are compensation for wrongdoing against the victim. So, they told him to stay away from her. Big deal. By not reporting it they were the only ones policing him. Clearly they did a piss poor job of that, so that makes them negligent at the very least.
They weren't the only ones policing him. Again from your link:
Kendrick was convicted of misdemeanor sexual battery in 1994. Still, no one told the congregation. McCabe said the elders had been unaware of the conviction.
Conti said she was molested in 1995 and 1996.
The guy was a convicted sex offender. If any organization is at fault, it seems to me the government is far more at fault than the church is.
So, if A molested your daughter once, and B, a person of trust knew about it and said nothing to you or the police, but simply told them to stay away and A continued to molest her, you wouldn't hold B responsible even in part for the continued molestations?
That wasn't the situation, though I can see how you got that impression as the article is very poorly written.
The alleged perpetrator admitted to the church that he had touched his sepdaughter's breast. This was a situation that the stepdaughter's family was already aware of. This was also, as best I can tell from the article, what resulted in Kendrick's conviction. It seems to me this situation was handled properly from the church's standpoint, though I question the stepdaughter's mother's judgement for not kicking Kendrick out immediately.
Some time later, Kendrick committed statutory rape with Conti, who doesn't appear to have been related to him. The church didn't know about this new situation, as far I can tell from the article. The rape happened at Kendrick's house, not at the church - the only thing that happened at the church was the Kendrick hugged Conti. My question is, where the heck were Conti's parents? Why were they letting her spend unsupervised time Kendrick? Did they think that the church was guaranteeing that every male in the church was safe to leave young girls with?
With respect to your question, in a situation like this:
1. I would never leave my daughter with someone just because they happened to be in the same church.
2. If a mature man started hugging my 10 year old daughter at church, I would take that as an extra sign to keep her away from him, not to let her stay with him.
3. If my daughter somehow got raped that way anyway, I wouldn't be suing for money damages, I'd be getting the police to put him in jail.
4. If I did sue, I would never agree to refrain from collecting damages from the perpetrator.
5. No, I would not hold the church responsible. At most, I might hold the specific elders in question responsible, though in this particular situation I probably wouldn't even do that. In the situation you thought was happening, I would probably hold the elders responsible, but not the church organization as a whole.